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I had an abortion 8 months ago will i ever get over the regret an pain, my baby would have been here now so its so hard

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    Absolved - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Absolved Feb 1st, 2011 at 5:13PM

    Dear rezaangel; I can't imagine how painful the decision must have been for you; and I can see that it is deep pain inside of you; however, whatever the circumstance was that led you to that decision you must not let it eat you up or tear you apart. All you can do now is look forward and be the best person you can be. Forgive yourself, I know God already has. Now you must heal and go forward. Wishing you the strength you need to go forward happily.

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8 Answers to "I had an abortion 8 months ago will i ever get over the regret an pain, my baby would have been here now so its so hard"

  1. australiadocvi - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by australiadocvi May 10th, 2011 at 10:00PM

    Past is past and you should look at the future. Everything is programmed and destined to happen. You could go for counselling to get over this period. Visit a doc or get it online. They may have an online post abortion counselling at www.abortionindia.com.

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  2. chalas - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by chalas Feb 1st, 2011 at 12:54PM

    DO NOT FEED THE TROL. Check her profile. She is probably a prolifer trying to stir things up.

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  3. helloiliveintx - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by helloiliveintx Oct 12th, 2011 at 7:59PM

    I feel a lot of people on this group come here and do this...glad I'm not the only one who feels like this!

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  4. princess6767 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by princess6767 Jul 22nd, 2012 at 6:33AM

    yes it is extrememly tough ....i had an abortion to...the pain will not go away ....we just have to live with it....

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  5. exslut - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by exslut Feb 1st, 2011 at 4:11PM

    I have been to an abortion clinic to get ultrasounds. They tried to sell me an abortion practically. I researched abortions because they seemed shady. Its their fault. They dont tell the truth and they try to coax girls to get them. Its about money. I got the pill abortion at 6 weeks. That didn't give me much regret, but the doctors and nurses wanted to wait for surgical and asked why I didnt want one. They are jerks just looking to make quick bucks

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  6. GoodGurlGonBadAz - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by GoodGurlGonBadAz Feb 1st, 2011 at 1:05PM

    It will take time but yes you will. I went through this before. Just remember everything happens for a reason hun. If your meant to have a child you will! Trust me!

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  7. Bealboy - 51-55 years old

    Posted by Bealboy Feb 1st, 2011 at 12:48PM

    What's done is done.
    I'm sorry you had to go through this.
    Good luck for the future.

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  8. shap36 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by shap36 Feb 1st, 2011 at 12:13PM

    I understand it....... but no use to be unhappy .u can choose for the next now..

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