The answer is complicated. But the whole "spread their seed" theory is just another excuse for men to cheat. Women cheat too just not as often and usually have an emotional need. Love seems so doomed sometimes
we make decisions ba
I think the internet has helped contribute to that.......a lot!
I would, if had better interpersonal skills and where not so lazy, but would not make a secret of it. Like it the French way.
It's good you have a passion...We are a passionate species.
When the passion subsides or disappears we will always seek a replacement.
Ahhhh..Yes ..easy solution..and family? Friends? Children? all those affected by that "easy" solution..?? What about them? I've been on both sides of it girl...There is no such thing as an easy solution. Is that not as self serving as the cheater? Just putting this out there for thought.
You have obviously been hurt by someone and I am truly sorry that it happened. Being bitter and judgemental...labeling and venting may help you feel better now...It's a short time relief though. Move on and realize..life ..love..relationships rarely work out to our expectations.You live..you love.. and you learn.
I truly wish you the best in your next go round.
Lust is a human feeling. It is written about in the Old Testament.
Lust is a feeling, an arousal.
When it is feed continuously , when it is a secret....it takes on a life of its own.
I have known women who assert they never have felt nor thought lustful thoughts.
There is a body of opinion is psychology that lust if its not discussed openly will lead to behaviour such as "cheating" or being unfaithful.
Does this help ?
people are people.Being turned on, IS being turned on! We all have cheating potential.
A cheating partner is a door to an open mind. Lighten up, then enjoy
Life hurts more than 90% My ex-wives cheated 90%
The second one I never cheated on.Didn't mean much to her. In a half century, life happens,no more,no less.
i hate them as well
Why? Because you can't control them? Are you going to beat them into a comma, because you hate them?
no because there trash you must be one
It's because they are selfish.
Cheaters cheat because they CAN. For them, the payoff outweighs any possible consequences.
Well men's brains have always been hardwired to spread their seed wide and far to ensure the survival of the species. So now that we're all civilized it's a daily struggle to resist the urge to fcuk everything that moves.
Let your body decide where you want to go..
High or Low
Fast or Slow
What about rapists or parents that murder or abuse their children? Are they better then cheaters?
**** gives people unrealistic expectations, and makes it so they can never be satisfied.
Dramas do the same thing. suddenly you want Leonardo Dicaprio, or bradd pit, and how can we compete with that?
True, it's all of the media. And it's still the person's fault, I know that.
I don't know.
Hollywood and literature..combined with religion and so called morality give you unrealistic expectations that will always leave you wanting..because it rarely exists. We are all human and subject to Hormones and genetic impulses...aka fallacies.
We're subject to them, but we're also capable of resisting the temptation of them.