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I hate cheaters with a passion. Why are there so many?

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Asked By: TheRose202 18-21, F  3 months ago

To me it's the worst possible thing you could do to another human being.

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  1. achieveisbelieve - 31-35 years old

    Posted by achieveisbelieve Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:15AM

    The answer is complicated. But the whole "spread their seed" theory is just another excuse for men to cheat. Women cheat too just not as often and usually have an emotional need. Love seems so doomed sometimes

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  2. muskats - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by muskats Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:11AM

    maybe because *********** is so commonplace, easily accessible and now socially acceptable

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  3. hhansen - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by hhansen Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:05AM

    we make decisions based on our best answer at the time...things change and we don't always handle it the best way. Forgiveness carries much more value than guilt. lol Howard

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  4. PoetLover - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by PoetLover Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:10AM

    Thank you.

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  5. TheRose202 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by TheRose202 Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:23AM

    Cheating will be forgiven once. Once and only once. After that, ****'em.

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  6. DustintheWind2 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by DustintheWind2 Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:36AM

    I think the internet has helped contribute to that.......a lot!

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  7. Drzewowit - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by Drzewowit Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:30AM

    I would, if had better interpersonal skills and where not so lazy, but would not make a secret of it. Like it the French way.

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  8. Peterbilt1955 - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by Peterbilt1955 Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:30AM

    It's good you have a passion...We are a passionate species.
    When the passion subsides or disappears we will always seek a replacement.

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  9. TheRose202 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by TheRose202 Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:43AM

    Easy solution: break up first. I find that those who cheat are often also cowardly.

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  10. Peterbilt1955 - 56-60 years old - male

    Reply by Peterbilt1955 Feb 8th, 2013 at 1:08AM

    Ahhhh..Yes ..easy solution..and family? Friends? Children? all those affected by that "easy" solution..?? What about them? I've been on both sides of it girl...There is no such thing as an easy solution. Is that not as self serving as the cheater? Just putting this out there for thought. You have obviously been hurt by someone and I am truly sorry that it happened. Being bitter and judgemental...labeling and venting may help you feel better now...It's a short time relief though. Move on and realize..life ..love..relationships rarely work out to our expectations.You live..you love.. and you learn. I truly wish you the best in your next go round.

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  11. YB01 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by YB01 Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:28AM

    Lust is a human feeling. It is written about in the Old Testament.

    Lust is a feeling, an arousal.

    When it is feed continuously , when it is a secret....it takes on a life of its own.

    I have known women who assert they never have felt nor thought lustful thoughts.

    There is a body of opinion is psychology that lust if its not discussed openly will lead to behaviour such as "cheating" or being unfaithful.

    Does this help ?

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  12. dvdvitka - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by dvdvitka Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:13AM

    people are people.Being turned on, IS being turned on! We all have cheating potential.
    A cheating partner is a door to an open mind. Lighten up, then enjoy

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  13. TheRose202 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by TheRose202 Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:17AM

    So, you have around a 90% chance of hurting them and that's your rationale? Bad odds.

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  14. dvdvitka - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by dvdvitka Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:53AM

    Life hurts more than 90% My ex-wives cheated 90% The second one I never cheated on.Didn't mean much to her. In a half century, life happens,no more,no less.

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  15. ellision13 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by ellision13 Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:08AM

    i hate them as well

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  16. PoetLover - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by PoetLover Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:11AM

    Why? Because you can't control them? Are you going to beat them into a comma, because you hate them?

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  17. ellision13 - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by ellision13 Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:13AM

    no because there trash you must be one

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  18. awolnationfan - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by awolnationfan Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:07AM

    It's because they are selfish.

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  19. musicbook - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by musicbook Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:06AM

    Cheaters cheat because they CAN. For them, the payoff outweighs any possible consequences.

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  20. Trillmatic - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by Trillmatic Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:05AM

    Well men's brains have always been hardwired to spread their seed wide and far to ensure the survival of the species. So now that we're all civilized it's a daily struggle to resist the urge to fcuk everything that moves.

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  21. bohaven - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by bohaven Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:04AM

    Human nature run amok.It will only get worse......

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  22. loveconsultant - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by loveconsultant Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:04AM

    unsatisfied souls

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  23. SimonLaStrange - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by SimonLaStrange Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:04AM

    because no makes a program on monogamists, rants about them , or does it cause them any trouble so you don't see them as much.

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  24. Psilo - 18-21 years old

    Posted by Psilo Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:03AM

    Let your body decide where you want to go..
    High or Low
    Fast or Slow

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  25. PoetLover - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by PoetLover Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:03AM

    What about rapists or parents that murder or abuse their children? Are they better then cheaters?

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  26. TheRose202 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by TheRose202 Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:07AM

    They all have a special place in hell if it exists. The place for child molesters and people who talk at the theatre.

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  27. TheBlondeBombshell - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by TheBlondeBombshell Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:03AM

    **** gives people unrealistic expectations, and makes it so they can never be satisfied.

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  28. Darklon7 - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by Darklon7 Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:04AM

    Hm, I may have to agree with you but I also believe it has some to do with conditioning as well.

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  29. bohaven - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by bohaven Feb 8th, 2013 at 12:06AM

    Dont blame it on ****.If it wasnt in them,they wouldnt do it.The human is responsible.

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