I hate helping my perfectionist dad?
I love my dad, but I don't help him if I can avoid it. I don't mind helping people, but I absolutely hate helping him. The problem is he has absolutely no patience and is almost completely irrational when it's a stressful situation. A couple weeks ago we had a crappy thing happen to us. I would be upset too, but he took it a whole other level. I cried myself dry that day because although it wasn't my fault I was put through the ringer because I wasn't able to read his mind and complete task w/in microseconds. I feel bad, but at the same time I also see his behavior as that of a 5 y/o and there's no way to work around it. Like today he needed me to move a chair, he got mad at me because I pushed the chair in cause he was gonna rush into that place. I pushed the chair in so that it wouldn't be in the way in the future. How to stop feeling guilty?