I hate to be shallow. But how could I find this out upfront. I want next realtionship with one who enjoys.?

Giving a good BJ. I enjoy oral on her alot. But when it come down to my turn I hear all the excuses. Like dont cum in my mouth. Its to big my jaws hurt. I am not big just normal (8") I don't wanna come right out and ask. But I feel that whats good for her I want the same in return. I know there so much more in a relationship. So please don't tell me about that. I understand all of it. I just want to get into a realtionship with a woman who gives great head also

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Well, if you can get her to try it, tell her what you like, give her positive feedback. When it comes to girls giving BJ's, it is scary. Every guy likes different things. All it takes is one guy telling us we are not good at it, and it turns us off the experience all together. We do not come wired to know exactly what you like. You have to tell us, guide us, and teach us. After we know what you like and we have our confidence, we like to give head. But, I would bet a ridiculous amount of money that someone was mean to her or told her she was bad at it. All she needs is some confidence building.

It probably has nothing to do with your size or anything like that.

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bebitz	Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 10:12AM Speaking as a woman who has been told she gives a really good bj. I really only want to give that to somone who I really want to please who has pleased me and to whom I feel very close to. I don't think asking for this "up front" or making it a requirement in a relationship is going to ensure that you recieve it. Perhaps you are looking for a prostitute not a partner. Rated: +4Vote for this!
edgargeorge	Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 7:03PM Gosh, this is a tough question, and all I can figure is that a woman who really loves you will try to give you what you want. But you've got to understand the the penis can be a scary, powerful thing to a women -- its symbolism alone is, uh, impressive. I don't think you should come right out and ask, though. I think you would run off potentially great partners just because it seemed, as you say, shallow. Rated: +2Vote for this!
Socklord	Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 7:50PM Look, she loves it in her, right? And 8" may be normal where you come from. I'm lucky if I hit 7". Usally I'm six. So don't give me some bullshit, like she ain't satisfied. So what's your problem? You're talking, but I can't hear you. Rated: +2Vote for this!
Fourandahalfdays	Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 7:12PM This has never been a big problem for me. Only have I ever met one women who would not give head. I am better than average too and it has never been a problem for me. I would not come right out and ask up front however, women might get the wrong idea.. Rated: +1Vote for this!
paco35	Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 8:32PM I think you answered your own question Shallow=BJ Upfront, does not equal a Relationship S=BJU, BJU not equal R. Thanks for playing Double Jeopardy. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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