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I have a BIG question to ask...I know it may be none of my business but im worried?

My sis n law is pregnant. She is not pregnant with teh guy she is with now but she is telling him that it is his baby. They broke up for a couple of months and she was with anotherguy on my living room floor and I caught em having sex. Well After The guy she is with now asked her to come back she went to illinois to live with him and she found out a couple of weeks after she went up there that she was pregnant and told the guy she is with that he was going tohave a baby! Well She also told the guy she is with now that she never had sex with that guy she was with after they split up. Well She is 5 months and 2 weeks and 3 days and she went to illnois MARCH 17th...and her due date is dec 15th So you add it up and tell me if that baby she has in here belly is really the guy she is with or the guy he slept with b4 they got back together...and should I say something to the guy she is wth now bc he dun work she goes days w/o eating all he cares about is himself what to do??

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Uhm... First, if she's serious about having this child, then she needs to start taking care of herself... She needs to gain weight, she needs on prenats, she needs to start seeing a doctor to monitor her...

Otherwise, if you're wanting an honest opinion... She doesn't sound mature enough to have a child! She still sounds like a child and kids don't need to have kids!

I would nudge her towards the big a word... If she doesn't have the common sense to take care of her body, and feed herself, what do you think is going to happen to the baby? First off, it will be born malnourished, if born at all... I don't know... Uhm... That sounds like a toughie!

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TrgdyAnn	Posted Aug 18th, 2009 at 3:06PM Wow, that's to many numbers to keep track of! Rated: +4Vote for this!
Nixstix	Posted Aug 18th, 2009 at 2:32PM Like you said; None of your business if I was you I would stay away from the whole ordeal Rated: +3Vote for this!
lost12345	Posted Aug 18th, 2009 at 2:40PM Ummm... yeah who knows who the kid belongs to... ultimately it is her problem and she is going to have to deal with the consequences of her actions later on. You don't have to say anything to anyone, because like you said, It's none of your business. The guy will know if it's his or not and if he doubts it at all, a paternity test can be done and he will know. She sounds like a piece of work and you really shouldn't waste your time trying to make someone (who seems to have a lot of problems) have more... just stay out of it and let things unravel on their own. Rated: +2Vote for this!
Joyce777	Posted Aug 18th, 2009 at 3:07PM No guy should be duped. This woman sounds EVIL. I would tell BOTH guys. Yes it is your business to up hold the truth and to hell with the LIAR. No one should ever be manipulated. Rated: +2Vote for this!
SelfProclaimed	Posted Aug 18th, 2009 at 2:30PM There is no right answer here. Have her hate you for "telling" on her or live with knowing that this child will not know his real father. Rated: +1Vote for this!
dhalf08	Posted Aug 18th, 2009 at 2:37PM Stay out of it. However, if you are friends with the guy you think is actually the father then just mention to him that she is pregnant and how far along she is..that way he has a choice on how to handle the situation (i.e. ask for dna test when the baby is born). Don't say that you think he's the father...if he wants to be involved he'll figure it out and do the rest on his own. As for the guy she is with now...I doubt she will stay with him for long if he is acting like that...I have a newborn and if my husband was being a douche like that I would not be able to put up with it. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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