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I have a crush on a 13 year old girl and im 19 is this normal?

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    Gemzaayy - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Gemzaayy Jan 15th, 2013 at 8:23AM

    Not reallly and it is a big problem if you do anything about it.
    Shes a kid your an adult

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37 Answers to "I have a crush on a 13 year old girl and im 19 is this normal?"

  1. chocomint - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by chocomint Jan 15th, 2013 at 8:25AM

    ABNORMAL .... VERY ABNORMAL

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  2. slowride90 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by slowride90 Jan 15th, 2013 at 8:24AM

    Not at all normal. A thirteen year old is to immature and it's going to create problems in so many ways.

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  3. BamPow - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by BamPow Jan 15th, 2013 at 8:23AM

    Forget about "normal" and think about jail and a criminal record as a sex offender that will be with you the rest of your life if you continue down this rabbit hole of destruction.

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  4. thomasedwin - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by thomasedwin Jan 15th, 2013 at 9:08AM

    In nature, 1000 years ago it would be totaly fine but today people want to control and own everything they see. They want what they want and **** everyone and everthing else. Thats why the planet is so f*cked up. According to everyone on here that would be perverted but how old was their great great grandmother when she fell in love and got married and had children???? Now people are going to start making excuses why it was fine back then but totaly wrong today. It's all a mater of cultur and money.

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  5. BabzEsq24 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by BabzEsq24 Jan 15th, 2013 at 9:14AM

    Laws were put in place because young people were being exploited. 1000 years ago there were no cars. By your logic we don't need traffic laws

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  6. DozerDan - 66-70 years old - male

    Reply by DozerDan Jan 15th, 2013 at 9:45AM

    Young women bleed and are biologically ready to produce children at that age because a hundred thousand generations of their mothers began having children at that age. Only in the past (feminist) century has feminist anti-marriage hate blocked young women and made men into criminals. Feminist hate laws do not make right or sane. Feminist hate laws do not support young women or young men. Shame on all the haters.

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  7. Aiyana77 - 31-35 years old

    Posted by Aiyana77 Jan 15th, 2013 at 8:27AM

    She is a kid scumbag. You need to wait at least another 5 years before even considering that kind of possibility. Especially since anyone of that age really doesn't know what they want or old enough to not be taken advantage of by someone like you. I have a daughter that is 12 and if some 19 year old came home with her or showed up to pick her up for a date not only would I call the police immediately but said guy would probably end up in the ICU.

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  8. Aiyana77 - 31-35 years old

    Reply by Aiyana77 Jan 22nd, 2013 at 5:13PM

    That is one of the reasons I am very spiritual but cant stand religion.

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  9. BennDover - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by BennDover Jan 15th, 2013 at 8:26AM

    Who knows...but if you act upon it you better be prepared to be on the recieving end in jail.

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  10. JoeyPFoxx - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by JoeyPFoxx Jan 15th, 2013 at 9:05AM

    Is it normal? Depends. She may be very mature for her age and you may be less than typically mature for your age.

    The key here is that you are both young. If you care for this girl so much, you will be patient and give it time. You both have growing up to do. Taking it anywhere beyond a friendship is not only illegal, but probably not healthy.

    If you want to be a man, you need to do the right thing.

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  11. DozerDan - 66-70 years old - male

    Posted by DozerDan Jan 15th, 2013 at 9:01AM

    Yes, its absolutely normal despite all the hate from anti-family feminist misandrists. My father was 12 years older than my mother. That always was NORMAL and STANDARD before feminism. A young woman just beginning her biological baby making years is the best biological time for her to marry and begin a family. It is also the most desirable age for NORMAL men. Tell the hate gang to go F themselves and stop trying to hurt young men and women.

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  12. BabzEsq24 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by BabzEsq24 Jan 15th, 2013 at 9:11AM

    My husband is 7 years older than me- but we didn't start dating when I was 12. Are you condoning statutory rape?

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  13. DozerDan - 66-70 years old - male

    Reply by DozerDan Jan 15th, 2013 at 9:15AM

    No, bigot, I'm condoning normal marriage and family. Shame on you for pushing feminist hate.

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  14. dobbin101 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by dobbin101 Jan 15th, 2013 at 8:45AM

    Normal no, unusual no, depending on age of consent probably illegal if you do anything (not everywhere in the world though).

    Depending on her looks despite what the law says some people might find her pretty she may even look much older that 13. It's doing something about it that would be the problem so hands off.

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  15. dillanfire - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by dillanfire Jan 15th, 2013 at 8:38AM

    Forget it dude, move on to someone your age.

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  16. TylerV - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by TylerV Jan 15th, 2013 at 8:24AM

    I think it is normal,depends on the girl though. Some people are quite mature at 13,some still look like kids at 17. So I think it could be normal

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  17. caithness - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by caithness Jan 15th, 2013 at 8:23AM

    It would not be legal for you to have a relationship with a little kid.

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  18. New2sb - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by New2sb Apr 8th, 2013 at 5:03PM

    It is good that you can see that it is a "crush." I don't think that part of it is abnormal. But listen to the people warning you not to act on it. Unbelievably, things that used to be settled quietly now can ruin your f........g life. Registering as a sex offender is for real!!!!!!

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  19. tonyhealing - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by tonyhealing Jan 20th, 2013 at 1:26AM

    It depends on the circles you both move in. If you fit in with her crowd, or she fits in with yours, then a crush in friendship terms is ok. It's if it's all done underhand that'll lead you into trouble, and of course acting out any physical urges either of you have

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  20. thatgirlnobodynotices - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by thatgirlnobodynotices Jan 19th, 2013 at 4:45PM

    It's not really normal but not a big deal if you don't act on it.

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  21. Fenally - 18-21 years old

    Posted by Fenally Jan 15th, 2013 at 12:24PM

    Keep away from her and forget about it! Your needs would be vastly more mature than hers; let her keep her childhood...

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  22. mzLEWIS - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by mzLEWIS Jan 15th, 2013 at 12:23PM

    Yes, if you think JAIL IS NORMAL!

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  23. ISCARIOT - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by ISCARIOT Jan 15th, 2013 at 10:41AM

    It is 'natural', therefore it is 'normal'.

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  24. StuPedaso - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by StuPedaso Jan 15th, 2013 at 9:23AM

    Better start thinking with your large head instead of your little head.

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