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I have a friend who calls me to tell me she is coming over my house, but never shows up. why does she do that?

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Asked By: veronica4ever 22-25, F  9 months ago

also she never answers the phone either. yet i see her posting things on fb. i had unfriended her on fb once after being fed up with this thing she does. she hits me up with a pity story that she has alot on her mind with her three daughters and husband being in jail. i understand why she is bitter but that has nothing to do with her calling me to tell me that she is coming over, not showing up, clicking the ignore button when i call her to see what's taking her so long, and never even giving me an explenation as to why she never showed. i just don't get why she does this, any ideas?

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    Lushiro - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Lushiro Jul 25th, 2012 at 4:01PM

    So she likes to play bluff call? Time you showed her up.

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  1. veronica4ever - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by veronica4ever Jul 25th, 2012 at 4:02PM

    what's bluff call?

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  2. Lushiro - male

    Reply by Lushiro Jul 25th, 2012 at 4:06PM

    .............She's playing a game where she wants you to expect her yet never shows up, mind games.

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9 Answers to "I have a friend who calls me to tell me she is coming over my house, but never shows up. why does she do that?"

  1. Ferric67 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by Ferric67 Jul 25th, 2012 at 4:19PM

    It sounds as if you are the back-up plan or the negotiating chip in her game of manipulating someone.

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  2. tantaitai - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by tantaitai Jul 25th, 2012 at 4:18PM

    She probably wants to see you, but does have a lot on her mind. She knows that you care, and wants that nurturing, but that also makes her feel guilty for not being able to just handle things on her own. I think it is a personality quirk, and maybe just accept her the way she is, and don't try to personalize it. She probably does the same thing to all who care.

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  3. josilver - 56-60 years old

    Posted by josilver Jul 25th, 2012 at 4:15PM

    Because she probably depends too much on her GPS. Who knows, she may be sitting of a railroad track right now.

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  4. veronica4ever - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by veronica4ever Jul 25th, 2012 at 4:29PM

    lol she does this all the time.

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  5. SanJoseNativeMe - 61-65 years old

    Posted by SanJoseNativeMe Jul 25th, 2012 at 4:11PM

    Because you haven't severed ties with her in an abusive rant in front of other people she's trying to game.

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  6. secret81 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by secret81 Jul 25th, 2012 at 4:08PM

    a pragmatic *****

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  7. DonGolden - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by DonGolden Jul 25th, 2012 at 4:05PM

    Cut her loose, for she is not a friend but an acquaintance......

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  8. highlander1999 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by highlander1999 Jul 25th, 2012 at 4:03PM

    forgetfull maybe smokes lot weed or is blonde?

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  9. MartinaFord - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by MartinaFord Jul 25th, 2012 at 7:57PM

    Maybe you gave her the wrong address.

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