These things happens quite often in life. Get through the fantasy, realize that this will never work out, and protect your precious job.......
Not advice, just a suggestion..
hey read this <a href="http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Have-A-Story-To-Tell/2347218" target="ep_blank">EP Link</a>
Dump your boyfriend & marry him
some one is projecting and misleding thoughts.
ask him out, then tell him about the dreams on the night of the first date, but leave out the sexy stuff, just tell him that you have been having dreams and for whatever reason he's sometimes in them. then if you guys hit it off, you can tell him about the sexy stuff on a future date
You were probably lovers in a previous life or something... and your still got that connection and still hooking up in the astral/dream scape...
You clearly think about him during the day and it carries over to your dreams.