I have an adult daughter that talks to me with disrespect and also demanding on a daily basis.?
I babysit her children due to lack of employment for a year now. She does pay me 60 per wk to also do laundry& Clean. Now the problem is she does absolutely nothing at all and the house is disgusting. On mondays I walk into the whole weekends dishes piled in the sink,laundry crawling out of the bathroom and stuff all over the place. I feel as if I am being used and abused. she also talks to me very rude and disrespectful and her father does not step in and reprimand her and never has. she is 30yrs old!!! I have heard from new older friends of hers that she tells them I abused her as a child which is very hurtful.I dont want to severe my relationship with her but I am getting hateful towards her. I would do anything for her but if she was nice. However I can no longer take it and without the help from my husband backing me up I don't know what to do. he says he sees what she is doing but does nothing and it is also putting a split between us, am I making a mountiain out of nothing?