We are the architects of our own happiness and destinies. If someone thinks they can tell you that load of crap, tell them where they can stick their opinion and I don't mean the bank. Just because your divorced twice doesn't mean you will never find a happy marriage. It only means you haven't found one yet.

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The question for you is what you have learned about yourself in the two marriages. Are there patterns in the women you have chosen that have made you unhappy? What changes did your ex-wives think we're necessary (and that other women may as well) and why couldn't you make those changes.<br />
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Use this time for self examination. Try therapy, it helped me a great deal. Once you understand what makes you happy, you can search for a woman that fits those criteria.

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3rd times a charm? :)

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I have an answer......Who ever told you this is full of bulls**t.<br />
I dont know your full story so will be making a few informed guesses here....if i`m off...i mean no offence.<br />
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You got married young....probally while insecure in yourself...and how can give security to someone else when you are insecure and unsure of yourself.<br />
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You were tied up in a carreer you thought was the be all and end all of your life.....and while good at first your marrage came between you and the work you loved.<br />
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The good news is it can be fixed and simply......But you are going to have to spend some time working out WHO you are..........and what you really WANT.

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That's good...

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Why thank you!....I try! :-)

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Do not marry on impulse, and do not let people decide your destiny by poisoning your mind and decision making. Best Of Luck, hope you will find as lifelong partner

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while i do think some people don't want marriage or shouldn't be in one(cheaters/adulterers) i think if you believe in finding a special someone than you will....however does that mean you need to be married to them,,,no..<br />
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marriage is for bringing about children and starting a family with that person...at least to me that's the whole point of it....you can be married and not want children too tho that's cool <br />
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but i for one want to be married to a special someone but i don't feel i ever will be at this point in time as i feel like i'm more of a Jesus compared to most folks and i don't need sex to live and be happy....although yeah it's nice lol...i can live without tho as i can live without being married too...<br />
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to the people trying to tell you what's best for you...well they need to worry about their own lives and not yours soo much!!<br />
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but to find a happy marriage, well unfortunately i think you just have to make that for yourself...well it takes two to tango don't get me wrong but i also think people just give up too easily and use divorce as an easy way out to start over(albeit i'm sure in some cases it's unavoidable...like abuse and rape or infidelity) just my opinion on it all tho<br />
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take care and hopefully you find what you're looking for/happiness(but the best place to find that is within yourself) <br />
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God Bless!!

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No photos, sorry. Camera broke, yeah? Not joking about that part.:-)

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