Join classes, hikes. a tennis club etc. "Searching" is too broad. I met my beloved at Acting school.
L@@KING for love... It's not something to be "found" for it will happen in the most unlikely places. Stay hopeful and let love find you!
"It is at the edge of the petal that love waits" William Carlos Williams, 1917.
Excuse me...How old are u?
Here is the poem it is extracted from :
Its a poem that shows the strength, fragility and worth of all of lifes relationships. Sort of like "never stop searching for love's validity, or the validity of love will be broken" or " love is more easily found once you stop looking for it"
I would say keep your eyes open and be ready to take initiative if you like a girl. But don't force it. It might come across desperate. Especially if girls see you constantly pursue any girl around, that's a big turn off. A girl likes to be pursued for her and not because she is simply a girl with two legs.
How does one "search for love"?
So you get to know someone AFTER you feel that someone is your soulmate? Maybe that's where the problem is. Falling for someone or getting romantic before you actually know them. Trying to make someone what you need them to be before you have even gotten to know who they actually are.
I would suggest that you stop "looking for love"...or at least looking for romantic love. I think you should meet someone, get to know that person as an individual...maybe casually date. Ask questions and have actual conversations about things other than romance. Get to know who that person is as a friend first. Then, if you like each other, you can think about taking it further. I think that people who are constantly getting stung by the love bug are just moving way too fast. It seems to me that falling in love shouldn't happen instantly or feel like a race to find that special someone. It should be a marathon, and neither person should be desperate. It seems to me that you shouldn't trust your heart to a virtual stranger.
me too :(