I have heard of ladies who have had affairs with their husband's best friend. I think that is awful, what do you think?
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Posted by aladywithacamera Apr 19th, 2012 at 1:18PM
I think it is more complicated than awful. We don't know what is really going on in everyone elses personal lives, so we should not be making judgements. Personally, I would not do it... Not because of my "morals" or reverence for outdated institutions, but because I would not want to cause emotional pain for my mate. If we hadn't agreed to an open marriage I should not be practicing one with the closest friend he has, right behind his back.
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Posted by SecretBrokenDoll Apr 19th, 2012 at 12:44PM
Meh, depends on the circumstance. "Oh no?! She had an affair?!" "Oh, he's refused to touch her for years and is cheating on her?" It's easy to judge when you're not in the picture.
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Posted by cooney55 Apr 19th, 2012 at 12:41PM
Affairs when you're married is awful regardless who it's with. With his friend costs times two..the cheater and his friend.
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Posted by imabear Apr 19th, 2012 at 1:24PM
Years ago an my now ex-husband and I broke up about the same time as another couple we were friends with. We literally switched partners - clearly the attraction was there all along and the marriage was already dead. Ex and new woman actually married and had a child together. Life is more complicated than we like to believe.
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Posted by vina05 Apr 19th, 2012 at 1:20PM
its really bad not only in the eye of other people hu knows,but spescially to god,she must be ashame of what's her doing!we can say she have reason that's y she do that.but if she really want to have affair to that bestfriend of her husband,then better she divorced his husband.if she's already maried y not stick to his husband?either his husband is good or bad,she must respect their marriage.
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Posted by rjschoch Apr 19th, 2012 at 1:13PM
I think you should not judge another without knowing the whole story,,,,and all the circumstances involved,,,
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Posted by KindredEarthWalker Apr 19th, 2012 at 12:58PM
This is why I don't have best friends
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Posted by bijouxbroussard Apr 19th, 2012 at 12:51PM
When anyone cheats with their spouse's best friend, whether it's the wife OR husband, both they AND the so-called friend are guilty of disloyalty.
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Posted by Treegurl Apr 19th, 2012 at 12:48PM
Cheating is bad. Yes. Doesn't matter the circumstances. If you cheat, something is broken in the relationship. Either come clean & try & fix it; fix it before you cheat or break it off before you cheat.
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