I have realized today that I don't have control of my life or my emotions at all. But I turned out good, so is this bad?
I mean, no one really does. Think about this. You can't control anything that happens to you in life, and those things influence you. You can choose what to do in life, but you do these htings because of the previous things which influenced you and made you who you are.
Example: A man becomes a veternarian because he lived on a farm and loves animals because that is where he lived.