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I want to make it up with him but he is not interested. He was sick at that time too and preparing for an exam. How to start a conversation with him again and what after that letter?
Shosho1111 Shosho1111 31-35, F 14 Answers Aug 15, 2012 in Marriage

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The silent treatment is a form of abuse. Not if you can't get away from the hyper-critical/judgemental/toxic/mean-spirited persons or people in your house. The only option then, is to disengage.

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Don't worry about it.

When he grows up and matures he will get over it and life will go on. He is proving he is immature by not talking to you and expressing his feelings about it all. The right and mature thing is to communicate and work out your problems. You are trying to do that and He is not.

PLUS - You cannot be expected to pay attention to a grown man 24 - 7

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This is true, but the silent treatment is not the mature way to handle any adult situation.

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Agreed! Communication is key.

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You've essentially told him that you don't love him. I'm sorry to be blunt, but that's how men think. NO amount of words will get you out of this one. You need to show him that you feel remorse.

The danger zone in any relationship is when the man stops talking. It means he's preparing himself for life without you.

Whatever you do, do not try to FORCE him to talk. If you want him to talk with you, you need to stop trying.

You got into this situation because you were thinking about what you want over what he needed.

Put your efforts into what he wants and needs, and wait.

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No, that's not anger, that's much worse.

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It hurts when the ones who are suppose to love us

aren't there when we need them.

You just have to wait until he's ready to forgive you

but things will never be the same....

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No just stating the facts.Once you fail a person it's never the same.It's sad but it will always be there in the back of his mind.You may forgive but you never forget.....

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I think you can move forward. But it takes time.

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It takes alot of time...

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I guess he needs to cool down so don't push him to the edge. Be patient.

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there are few times that a man will ask/need help, to turn you back to him then he will never fully trust you again.

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Talking isn't necessarily communication. Looks like it's over. Maybe he's given up on you completely. It may not be all your fault.

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None of us understand your circumstance nor your relationship enough to say 'go' or 'stay'. If you feel badly, that is your heart speaking. Trust it. Go to him and explain that your heart lost in a battle with your mind and you regret that. You wish to show that for him, heart should have come first and your momentary lapse was wrong. Open your heart to his words and actions and 'feel' what he expresses, show your desire to rectify. You cannot talk ( a note) your way out of what you behaved your way into. Behave/act your way out and he will understand. Hug.

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I was sick and pretty depressed. He was avoiding me coz he didn't want to get the virus before his exam and that had a bad influnce on me. I started to withdraw from him unconciously. Didn't want things to get that worse too

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It looks like he also ignored your needs for the sake of something more important to him. In time you will probably come to realize that you are much better off without him. You deserve better. Let time pass.

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You more or less proved to him that you could not be trusted. If he needed you to lean on at that moment and you just walked away and ignored him, then you have shown him that you cannot be a trusted loyal partner. What would you have thought had he done the same thing to you. It may take a while for him to get over it and hopefully he does, but you need to apologize to him face to face not in a letter. Just like with women, he will most likely not open up to you right away, you have to earn his trust again.

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Marriage counseling and prayer.

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He thought he could count on you...you didn't come through. But giving you the silent treatment is stupid. Just carry on as per normal...you can't make him talk.

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Well you've tried and he still won't response. Let it go because he is a babyish at the moment. He will come to you when he is ready so you need a lot of patience.

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