i know its harder to see the bright side right now, but thank god you didnt get married to him and then discovered it!! it will take a LOT of getting used to, but iam sure that you will find the strength to forget this creep

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Get the ring appraised. Move on

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Hm. This happened to me, sort of. What I discovered was that life without him was better than I believed it could be. You need to get Rihanna's "Take a Bow"<br />
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J3UjJ4wKLkg&noredirect=1<br />
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and listen to it about 100 times. Separate from him and don't look back. Every time you do, you'll just find new questions you'll never get answered. In some ways, being the ringer felt weird. Was I just a consolation prize, or a plan "b?" Those questions don't matter so don't get them airtime. <br />
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Move on. Find your path that you wouldn't have taken had you married him, or lived with him.

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Get real and move on. If this is how he chooses to honor his marriage vows to her, then you can expect the same from him in regards to your vows.<br />
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There are no excuses for this. People of moral character do not engage someone untill the current marriage is over!

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Wow. How incredibly painful. There is zero excuse for your fiance stringing you along like this. You say, "So I see you have a wife/husband, and it's not me. Want to explain this?" And you watch your fiance babble about how they wanted to tell you, but didn't have the balls to, and some other lame excuses.<br />
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But why would you want to live your life with someone who keeps such a huge thing from you?

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forget about it thank your self lucky yove found out when you did ,,,,<br />
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hope you feel better soon a broken heart can only be fixed by another <br />
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find a man and move on

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Leave him. I would consider writing an anonymous letter to his wife. Just be prepared for her to place all the blame on you. <br />
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I do have to ask, how the hell did you manage to go 2 years without ever going to his house?

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Horrible! You must leave this person immediately and not look back.

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somethings amiss. he cant be in 2 places at one time

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Dump his sorry azz

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Get out your gun.

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Married but separated?

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Get him out of your life, as if he tells lies you can not trust him, and once the trust has gone the relationship is over anyway. At least you found out before you married him!!!

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Oh dear, I'm sorry you are in that situation. I know it may be hard to see it right now, but think about how his Wife feels as well! If she doesn't know about this (especially if there are kids in the picture), it would be right to tell her, so that she knows now.<br />
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But I really cannot imagine how painful that must be :/. My heart goes out to you. Thank goodness you didn't go through with the "marriage".

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Wow! You'll come out on top in the end.

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tell the story the all story if she loves you then she is scared to heart if not she is a beach that uses that poor soul of yours end it

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Run away from him.

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If you kill him, it would be considered a crime of passion. I'm not telling you to kill him, I'm not telling you not to kill him either *wink wink*

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ask his wife

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