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I just got dumped. won't answer text messages, ignores my calls. How can I get him to tell me in person?

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19 Answers to "I just got dumped. won't answer text messages, ignores my calls. How can I get him to tell me in person?"

  1. Melody063 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Melody063 Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:35AM

    Isn't that behavior enough?
    Screw it

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  2. FlowersNButterflies - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by FlowersNButterflies Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:35AM

    You can't. Many people cannot handle face-to-face dealings, and unless he died and you just don't know it yet, you will have to move on and heal on your own.

    Like (4)

  3. Pene1opePitstop - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Pene1opePitstop Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:35AM

    What a coward. You can do better

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  4. lullabi1988 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by lullabi1988 Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:38AM

    I wouldnt give him the satisfaction of me going after him....its his loss not yours...u win LOL

    Like (3)

  5. DistantLonging - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by DistantLonging Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:34AM

    Give it time and don't get hung up on him (both literally and figuratively).

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  6. scratchedxthornxwrists - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by scratchedxthornxwrists Feb 2nd, 2013 at 11:09AM

    i know, it's really hard, when there are so many people out there carrying on like his behaviour is acceptable, while your need for closure, and to be treated like a human ******* being with feelings, is deemed unacceptable.

    i had it happen to me once, just ONCE, that a guy i was seeing came around to my house, and told me it just didn't feel right, no chemistry etc, and he made sure i was ok with it. i was ok with it, and i really appreciated it and respected him for it! as for all the other douchebags who did the ignore thing, well, they deserved every ounce of anxiety they got from me being understandably upset with them.

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  7. quackattack - 31-35 years old

    Reply by quackattack Feb 2nd, 2013 at 11:37AM

    Thank you for understanding!

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  8. malikahbella - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by malikahbella Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:59AM

    He is just weak to approach you in person and too weak to admit it ....m sorry I knw wat ur going through I have been there..just calm urself dont call him or msg it will signify to him that ur weak and u can't survive without him...dont give him tat chance .....instead be happy such a person doesn't deserve you .....just allow time to heal ur pain nd m sure u'll get a better person than him ......dont give up nd dont show ur weak however weak u feel inside......

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  9. MissAlicee - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by MissAlicee Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:59AM

    y would you want him to tell you in person?

    he's a coward if he can't, and doesn't know what's he's doing is super disrespectful.

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  10. EdieQuinnz - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by EdieQuinnz Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:37AM

    he's a doucher. feck him

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  11. gagagirl - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by gagagirl Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:36AM

    use any ways to talk to him. u have to be sure if he really dumps u or not. use his friends or neighbor phones or anything else

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  12. quackattack - 31-35 years old

    Reply by quackattack Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:56AM

    he never said he was dumping me. I realized it when everything stopped, except me. I kept in touch. wasn't ready to let go.......

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  13. gagagirl - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by gagagirl Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:58AM

    u should know if he is or not. if it is u should let go of him

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  14. MarcusTulliusCicero - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by MarcusTulliusCicero Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:35AM

    Well you could show up a place you know he will be

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  15. emmi331 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by emmi331 Feb 2nd, 2013 at 11:24AM

    He sounds pretty immature. I would completely cut off texting and calling. Being dumped is awful, but it's part of life. I'm just sorry he's being so dumb about it. I remember being crazy over a guy in high school, and we'd been dating steadily for a couple of months. One day he just stopped calling. I finally called him, and got a humiliating message - he just wasn't interested any more. I was very upset, but I got over it - and you will, too.

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  16. Love2dance11300 - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by Love2dance11300 Feb 2nd, 2013 at 11:17AM

    Ask him for a private word, not before class so that you have time to talk. Or get a mate to tell him

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  17. phatnhapi - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by phatnhapi Feb 2nd, 2013 at 11:07AM

    You don't need him. He did you a favor. He is no longer wasting your time. You will find someone better who wants a relationship. Just enjoy your life and the right one will come along.

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  18. mrtexasguy - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by mrtexasguy Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:47AM

    You already know. Get over it.

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  19. ameseenger - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by ameseenger Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:44AM

    who did the mistake how to get u or someone ............and u know very well how to handle it

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  20. honeypie29 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by honeypie29 Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:42AM

    Show up at his house uninvited and break down his door. What do u think? Just let him off the hook...forgive him..Forgive yourself.

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  21. teenab - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by teenab Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:39AM

    ONLY time will tell...

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  22. whatistheprob - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by whatistheprob Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:37AM

    Knock on nhis door if your crazy enough. Otherwise let it go.

    Like (1)

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