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Clingy as in constantly touching me all the time, staring at me all the time (even while I sleep). I can't seem to take a **** in peace. I've tried telling him its taking awhile for me to adjust since I've lived and been alone for so long. I just want to be able to leave the house without answering a million questions.
ChocSwurl ChocSwurl 26-30, F 11 Answers Dec 6, 2012 in Dating & Relationships

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it may be easy to say so, however, he would be exceedingly offended by it. <br />
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at this point, he may be so in love with you that he really enjoys being with you or just staring at you. <br />
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since you decided to move in with the individual, you have to try to adjust as well. tell him you may feel a little awkward since you have been alone for some time. <br />
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but try to understand him as well. <br />
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also, try to secure him further. a clingy person turns out to be clingy sometimes because of "insecurity"; he may feel he would lose you eventually and so he would try to make the best of whatever he is experiencing right now

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well, give him some job to do.. that will make him engaged.. otherwise kiss him , smile at him n close the door.. tell him that ul be back after completing sm work.. dont entertain his clinginess

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He sounds pretty controlling - you might have to stop living with him - and going with him, too! Codependency destroys many relationship and you have to be watchful that it isnt getting worse

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Sometime we have to pick your own time to fight. Just make sure it one you do not mine losing to win. Best wishes

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seems like a bit of an insecurity issue. If the clinginess doesn't subside after a while, you might need to re think the decision you made to move in together. It could be though that he's just really happy and excited about it.

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simply tell him the following in the best way you think it will get thru to him (hint sex usually is a good treat), "STOP BEING SUCH A ******* ****** AND GET A JOB YOU PIECE OF ****! LEARN ABOUT SOME PERSONAL SPACE YOU MAMAS BOY OR I WILL KICK YOU THE **** OUT AND PUT YOUR NAME IN THE DICTIONARY UNDER *****!!!" ... or you know some variant of such ... and then let the sex ensue!

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sit him down and tell him straight...there's a saying that's worth it's weight in gold..."start off as you mean to carry on"

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