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I let a boy in my room when i wasn't suppose to, and he raped me that night. was it my fault for letting him in?

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14 Answers to "I let a boy in my room when i wasn't suppose to, and he raped me that night. was it my fault for letting him in?"

  1. thenaughtybartender - 22-25 years old

    Posted by thenaughtybartender Dec 28th, 2011 at 6:48AM

    no... but y did u allow him in d first place???

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  2. banabear - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by banabear Dec 28th, 2011 at 12:29PM

    he was a friend..

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  3. thenaughtybartender - 22-25 years old

    Reply by thenaughtybartender Dec 28th, 2011 at 12:34PM

    did u report bout the incident??

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  4. richa12345678 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by richa12345678 Dec 28th, 2011 at 3:27AM

    OMG! No dear , its not your fault , report it to police first

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  5. dino565 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by dino565 Dec 28th, 2011 at 3:21AM

    Yes stupid girl

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  6. arikdumont - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by arikdumont Dec 28th, 2011 at 9:57PM

    no it wasn't her fault you're stupid!!!

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  7. janeybyrd - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by janeybyrd Dec 28th, 2011 at 2:33AM

    NO

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  8. abstraction - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by abstraction Dec 28th, 2011 at 2:33AM

    No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No.
    Criminal actions aren't ever the victim's fault. He's a bastard.

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  9. poeticdiva - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by poeticdiva Dec 28th, 2011 at 2:23AM

    No. You didn't ask for it to happen and you didn't know it was going to happen.

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  10. imzadi81 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by imzadi81 Dec 28th, 2011 at 2:20AM

    Of course its not your fault. No means no. Period.

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  11. calicuz - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by calicuz Dec 28th, 2011 at 2:17AM

    It's not your fault and be sure to report this guy to the police so he can be held accountable for what he did toy you. don't let him get away with it. Be sure to get some counseling for yourself as well, and you haven't done so already, find someone you trust and tell them so they can help you and give you the support you are going to need. You don't have to go through his all by yourself.

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  12. FreshBeginning - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by FreshBeginning Dec 28th, 2011 at 2:09AM

    Sorry to hear this.
    If you ever need to talk about this you can PM me.
    But, i do agree with the answers here. It's NOT your fault.
    He has a brain (at least I think so anyway) and uses it for judgement. He decided to do this.. not you.
    I agree with quietiltany, don't take a shower. Go to the hospital.. they can get evidence. Make him pay so that he won't do it to someone else..
    *hugs*

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  13. meteorite - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by meteorite Dec 28th, 2011 at 2:05AM

    No..it was his fault..HE raped you.

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  14. pinkgodslippers - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by pinkgodslippers Dec 28th, 2011 at 1:55AM

    no, it is one issue to let someone in your room but and entirely different subject to being violated against your will.

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  15. knel123 - 26-30 years old

    Posted by knel123 Dec 28th, 2011 at 1:55AM

    If someone rapes someone it is never anyones fault but the rapist.
    Unless you slept with someone then later decided hmmm maybe you dont like them that much so they mustve raped you or something.
    But violent aggressive rape is always the rapists fault no one else

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  16. iamSTAR - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by iamSTAR Dec 28th, 2011 at 1:54AM

    Oh my God!

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  17. TheOneyouwerewarnedabout - 70+ years old

    Posted by TheOneyouwerewarnedabout Dec 28th, 2011 at 1:54AM

    wtf. no. NO

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