I like this guy at work and i want to tell him. Whats the best way to do it, email, text or in person? idk if hes gay.
I have been working with him for over 2 years now and have had feelings for him since. I know it can all blow over in my face. Sometimes I feel like he likes me and sometimes idk. We barely talk at work let alone outside of it. I guess you all are right tho. It is not the smart thing to do. Thanks for the responses everyone. You really helped me out.
10 Answers to "I like this guy at work and i want to tell him. Whats the best way to do it, email, text or in person? idk if hes gay."
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Work mate dude? Bad call regardless, I am sure there are plenty of good looking men around where you live.
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Honestly how easy would it be for you to find another job ? I am of the opinion don't **** where you eat. Work was work for me and romance somewhere else. Fine when it is all going well, horrible when it goes wrong.
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You really should establish conversation with him first before doing things like that. To the point where u see him outside of work kind of conversation and yall talk on the phone so u can feel him out. U talk that crazy s**t to him and he doesn't get down that way, it can blow up in ur face. Better to investigate first before being open about ur feelings.
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Please do not get involved with work mates....you will regret it soon.
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in person but not at work
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Ask him if hes gay first.
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I would leave that alone. To many things going agaisnt you, work, dont know if he is even interested in your sex let alone you.
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Ask him out! :D
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Do it in person!!
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by JustPlainBarb Jan 26th, 2013 at 6:25PM
Do you really want to get involved with someone you work with?? If those kinds of relationships go bad .. it's very difficult for you and everyone around you.
And .. some companies frown on that too ..
Might not be a good idea to put this guy on the spot like that.
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