I live with my boyfriend and we are having a kid together and i dont know if he really does love me?

i dont know if he really does love me or if i should stay with him with the way he treats me. we get into a fight alot and he used to get mad when i didnt want to have sex. i almost left him three times already. he drinks and when he drinks he kinda gets mad at me for no reaon and he yells at me. i dont know what to do. please help

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I know you probably dont want to hear this, but i think in your heart you already know the answer, "advice, something you ask for when you already know the answer but wish you didnt" i know the child is on your mind and trying to decide whats best for your child, but do you want your child growing up thinking thats the normal, to be in a loveless relationship and be abused? Do what you think you should do, intuition, all women have it. Best of luck, Hope all works out the best for you.

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underconstruction	Posted Jun 26th, 2009 at 4:20PM If you are not pregnant , yet, why are you thinking of this man to be the father of your child ?. He doesn´t sound like the kind of person that would be a good partner let alone a good parent. If you are pregnant, your child is your priority now. Don´t do anything to harm your baby and dont allow this man to hurt you either. Move out and seek help. You and your baby deserve a happier and healthier environment. Rated: +4Vote for this!
mayapie	Posted Jun 26th, 2009 at 4:13PM leave him ASAP. Rated: +2Vote for this!
Sweetcitywoman	Posted Jun 26th, 2009 at 4:13PM Seems to me you have the answer already. Please don't let you, talk yourself into thinking he will change because of the baby. He won't. And if you think you can change him, you can't. You will be subjecting an innocent to his abuse. Rated: +2Vote for this!
c8lorraine	Posted Jun 26th, 2009 at 4:16PM It only gets worse after the baby is born. crying, teething,dirty nappies,sleepless nights ! If he's not on board now, he won't be when the hard stuff come into you're lives Rated: +1Vote for this!
loyaldude	Posted Jun 26th, 2009 at 3:13PM Leave now!!!! there are many guys out there for you to choose from and get the one that is suitable to you physically, mentally, and emotionally. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Blueyez84	Posted Jun 26th, 2009 at 3:15PM your kind of stuck because of the kids. Maybe one of your family memebers can help you out but if they can't, your basically stuck. Rated: +1Vote for this!
BloodWrath	Posted Jun 26th, 2009 at 3:17PM Ask him the question, explain ur predicament, as him what he'd do bout it...then resort based on his replies. Woteva u do, hav conviction. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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