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in the year 2006 i got myself admitted to dentistry and by 2011 i should have finished my internship. During my first year itself i lost my focus and i mistook my self developed musical ability (which was a result of lack of self discipline) as another career option. Slowly i started drifting away from my main field (dentistry) and began concentrating only on improving my music (flute and guitar). Today, its almost the end of 2012 and i am still stuck up in my final phase. I find myself in a situation where I have lost my grip on my 1st, 2nd and 3rd year's concepts and in my final phase (4th year) i am finding it very difficult to grasp things quickly. I do not want to be a musician holding a guitar or blowing a flute. I wanna be a successful dentist. How do i focus in my mainstream? I feel like giving up when I do not understand a concept.
drkailashrathi drkailashrathi 22-25, M 6 Answers Dec 29, 2012 in Self Improvement

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Try EMDR therapy. Fast, effective and your truth will come out.

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Perhaps you don't really want to become a DDS any longer? and are just going through the motions?

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no way.. i chose this and i want to be. i find that i am not able to cope up mentally.

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Just do it. Your actions in the next few weeks are crucial. Commit yourself to "kicking" it in...you can pick up hobbies when you're a practicing DDS or DMD.

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go see a therapist<br />
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something is blocking you<br />
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............ maybe even self sabotage... which is impossible to see on your own.<br />
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i recommend person-centred for understanding and actualising your abilities

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yes.. forgot to mention, i got separated from my love a year and a half ago because of my mistake.

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ah, put it where you were not supposed to..... or forgot to put it where you should. okay, maybe you are grieving for what might have been.... a therapist will help....are you brave and courageous to accept it? most UK universities have counselling services.... don't know about elsewhere.

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courage? i donno!!

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walking in is the hardest bit, i still remember my first time.... looking back i wonder why i was so scared - i think it was about being honest with myself.

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Become a dentist to the musicians.

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Report it stolen... but it a popular car soooo :-P

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