If you love him tell him and let the chips fall where they may.
It is very brave of you to admit that you love someone. Good luck!
Yes telling someone you love them is beautifully magical and romantic. But will you get the response you expecting???
I hope you know this person well and have GOOD vibes of how he feels about you.....Good luck!!!!
If you truly believe you are in love
If you are both of legal age
If you both have a good "head on your shoulder" and you know what I mean by that
IF: you feel he is the sweetest gentlelest, kindest, most precious thing to your heart and
IF: you feel your heart could not beat without him
go for it! Life is short
Way way too short. Why live with regrets and alone if you have a love in your heart . Shared happiness is the best happiness
Try it and see.
Only if he has already told you that he loves you.
Wise. You don't want to be considered a man chaser. If you chase him then in the end he will just leave. Guys need to think it is their idea not yours. Never tell a guy you love him without him telling you first. Make him invest emotionally with you. He needs to prove that he can win your love. If you tell him then he knows he already has it and that's when the b.s. starts.
Actually I understand your view, Lady G, but only a week ago , I was with a group of peeps who had this very discussion! 9 out of 10 guys said they were backwards, had social anxiety, feared rejection , or similar related issues and ive also seen this online where the guy says he KNOWS she loves him,,,,,he wishes she would just tell him she wanted to spend her life with him already...give him a big opening, or ask HIM already. Its true. It also depends on the circumstances , I believe. I have no idea what "koontz" is protesting, but Ive seen some people miss out on a great love because of a silly little barrier or centuries old tradition. :(
Everybody is entitled to their own opinion. I just left mine. I agree with KingofSwords. I think he has a valid point being that he is a man. Koontz205 is just acting like a jerk posting crap all over the place. EP is full of idiots like him. Since men and women are different and so are their relationships, it would have to be what worked within the relationship of those two people. If you already had a discussion about it and had your own opinion (and obviously not open to others) why did you bother posting the question?
define love ?
It is a good decision,as lng as he's nt married!
If u dnt do it u'll always wonder 'what if' so go ahead and do it if you're mind's already made up bt dnt go 4 it whole heartedly cz he myt say no,and if he does give urself a pat on the back n move on,you'll be hurt bt thez no need to brood over it 4 ever coz there'll be othr guys probably way better
If you have been together for a while then you can... But if you guys aren't in a relationship and he's just a guy you know but don't have that kind of a relationship with, then maybe you should try and form one first?
Well it may just turn him away. You should let him tell you first!
of course, I wish everyone would just say what they think.
Don't do it because it will all go against you later on when you get to know him more, he will look at you as an easy person then get bored of you quickly.
THIS.......GOES BOTH WAYS
I know, even if he is someone who comes from the door but I am giving her an advice to be strong and not innocent like I used to be. This is the problem when a lady has no experience with guys, she ends up getting hurt from an ******* who wants her only to control her and get what he wants but once he finds out she is not capable of being controlled, he gets bored and ends everything by disrespecting my family who can love me more than he does
Human BEING is not BEING a shield to the bad things of this EARTH. Should she stand on her own two feet and weed out bad guys yes. Should she take away the beautiful side of her(Feminine) You know ...soft,gental,kind,considerate,compassionate,loving...Or do THEY exist in the WORLD anymore???
How long have you been seeing each other? Usually after a few weeks or months of being together she usually says something.
sure he would like to hear it
I don't know! :P But if you want to... then YES!!!
I guess it depends on how I would feel about her. I would hope I feel the same way about her because then I would get to say that I love her too. It can be a bit scary though :) If you want some more advice or to talk about the actual situation... I know men pretty well and would be happy to listen so let me know. Hope it works out for ya!
If I loved her I would say it back...Without hesitation. But don't do it in a public place. Do it somewhere relaxing....Swing sets at a park....A stroll among flowers...So on.
Youll regret it all yr life if you dont. ¢:
if its meant to be, its meant to be.
not really. he'll tell you first if he likes you, and he'd ask you out if he liked you. i think. :s sorry but that's generally the case... but you know, do what you like.