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I love my bf so much that it hurts he keeps cheating i wanna know why? am pretty and he loves me so why ?

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  1. yssubramanyam - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by yssubramanyam Nov 20th, 2012 at 6:27PM

    test of love may be..

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  2. Kayakker - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Kayakker Nov 20th, 2012 at 6:22PM

    Never get drawn down by a partner...life has more to offer...

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  3. ZappedToTheUnicorn - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by ZappedToTheUnicorn Nov 20th, 2012 at 6:16PM

    It won't matter if you're pretty, nice or anything good towards him. He cheats because he wants to and he knows that he has that control over you, that no matter who he cheats with, you'll still stick by his side so therefore, he thinks that you're okay with it.

    I'm going to be a bit brutal and ask you why the hell you're still with him. You're obviously hurt by it but you seem like the kind of person who thinks that their partner will change if they show them their devotion..Seriously? That won't change anything. That won't help anything. If you want better, you need to leave him. If you want him to keep cheating on you, by all means, stay with him.

    At the end of the day, it will not matter if you stick by his side. He will continue to cheat on you until you leave him. Simple as that.

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  4. tamarrrra - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by tamarrrra Nov 20th, 2012 at 6:30PM

    u know whats funny that am not that type of girl who cry herself 2 sleep but with him every night i cry myself 2 sleep i wanna leave him but i can't but i really want 2

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  5. ZappedToTheUnicorn - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by ZappedToTheUnicorn Nov 20th, 2012 at 6:32PM

    what do you mean, you can't? Everyone can leave. He doesn't own you and you don't own him. If he's abusing you then you need to seek professional help, see what they can do for you and how to get you out of it. If no one is around for you, try seeking out a woman's shelter.

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  6. Fayerweather - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Fayerweather Nov 20th, 2012 at 6:15PM

    He may very well love you. I don't believe that monogamy equals love. But if he knows you don't want him sleeping with other people and you've made an agreement to be monogamous and he keeps lying to you, then, he doesn't respect you.

    Find a nice boy who'll respect you and stay faithful. You deserve it.

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  7. gargamel68 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by gargamel68 Nov 20th, 2012 at 6:12PM

    Listen to what everybody is saying and dump the cheatin bastard. He does not love you and is just getting off on your suffering. You know where he hangs out? Visit the restrooms and write on the walls, his name - followed by his health problems ( AIDS ), that should do wonders for 'his' sex life.

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  8. tamarrrra - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by tamarrrra Nov 20th, 2012 at 6:45PM

    lol

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  9. chipperchick - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by chipperchick Nov 20th, 2012 at 6:12PM

    You are gonna have to love yourself first..

    Once you realize he is not going to change,..go.

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  10. honeypie29 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by honeypie29 Nov 20th, 2012 at 6:11PM

    Nothing about the way you look will change the fact that most men naturally desire variety...And most women want security. So either feel bad about it and stay... feel bad about it and leave....Accept it, stay and be happy....Or accept it, leave and be happy.
    Those are the only options I can think of. Remember, you are loved :)

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  11. Harrinet - 16-17 years old

    Posted by Harrinet Nov 20th, 2012 at 6:10PM

    Hey,shine ur eyes gul,he dosent luv u!!!

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  12. tamarrrra - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by tamarrrra Nov 20th, 2012 at 6:45PM

    its funny coz i feel good reading this

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  13. starship33 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by starship33 Nov 20th, 2012 at 6:09PM

    i stayed with a jerk and i needed so much therapy when i got through with him. not worth it.

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  14. tamarrrra - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by tamarrrra Nov 20th, 2012 at 7:50PM

    how did u dump him ?

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  15. awasadaorang - 26-30 years old

    Posted by awasadaorang Nov 20th, 2012 at 6:06PM

    Wow.

    Zero self-respect?

    Leave the ****** NOW.

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  16. tamarrrra - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by tamarrrra Nov 20th, 2012 at 6:33PM

    ur right

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