Get it while you can
Why not just have them both?
You better go home girl and make up your mine.<br />
Say yes to one and leave the other behind.
Who is them?
make a choice. you'll lose them both eventually even if you choose one now. who makes you feel most alive?
i've encountered this situation recently. i left a long term relationship of 6 years to talk with someone who asks me challenging questions and presents new and exciting concepts. I'm happy with the decision I made although I wish it ended differently.