Get it while you can
Why not just have them both?
Lol. I just lost both two nights ago. It doesn't work. And when it blows up in your face it hurts twice as much. My heart broke twice. Be careful.
Make the most of it whilst you can. You're a long time married ;)
You better go home girl and make up your mine.<br />
Say yes to one and leave the other behind.
Who is them?
make a choice. you'll lose them both eventually even if you choose one now. who makes you feel most alive?
i've encountered this situation recently. i left a long term relationship of 6 years to talk with someone who asks me challenging questions and presents new and exciting concepts. I'm happy with the decision I made although I wish it ended differently.