I love this boy,i don t know if he is gay or straight.He usually does gay things but it doesent make him gay or does it?
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Posted by xSilverMistx May 18th, 2012 at 6:29AM
You'd never know, unless he tells you for himself.
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Posted by joesdog Mar 29th, 2012 at 9:29PM
You're in a place where you're going to have to pony up or get off the ride, hon. I just went through this myself. I was working at a place and there was a guy that I had a total crush on. I watched him and I saw him doing things that I thought meant he was gay, but he wasn't american, so I wasn't sure. I know that there are other cultures where a man's actions don't mean the same thing they mean here in the US, so I held off asking him out. This turned out to be a good thing, because after I left I told him that I'd had a huge crush on him, and he hasn't spoken to me since. Imagine the awkwardness if I'd asked him out while working with him!
The thing that young guys don't get is that it is not necessary to act on emotions every time. Just because you 'love' this guy does not mean you have to act on it. It is perfectly ok to wait until you know more or to not act on it altogether. It all depends on the context and the surrounding details - how much will you risk if this guy is NOT gay?
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Reply by guest9999 Mar 30th, 2012 at 7:23AM
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Posted by LexAce Nov 11th, 2012 at 11:46AM
I'm in the same situation I'm in high school in love with a guy that doesn't ever talk to girls at school an only hangs with guys. I call them guys guy when a guys guys get together I call it a sausage fest. The guy I'm in love with didn't start off that way I met him in elementary in 6th grade so it was my last year my brother was in the same class. While I happened to meet his younger bro. Then it turned out they lived in the same apartment complex. We all got to know each other better. The guy I'm in love with we started off arguing all the time over everything even over stupid stuff we wrestled I always lost he's like ten time bigger an stronger than me. Then after a year I fell for him I stopped arguing and he stopped wrestling with me. Then his mom an there step dad really liked me and treats me like a second son I even lived with them for about a month when I was kicked of the house. Then the guy would always ask for messages it was nothing new to me because I get asked to do that by many people( apparently I'm good at it) but he was frequent about it. Then so many other things happened like me sharing a bed with him at his older brother house and then he rolls on top of me when ever we share a blanket but nothing ever happens in fact half the time I'm nocked out and some else tells us what happened. I can't get over him no matter how hard I try. I gradually fell in love with him I'm bi only my close friends now or people I know won't tell the wrong person. I gradually fell in love with him but I still date others when I can. But it sounds like u don't know much about the guy ur in "love" with. It sounds more like a crush. Don't get crushed I found a guy best friend to do guy stuff like jokes and a girl best friend to talk about guys both know I'm bi and its helped a lot. Being bi doesn't mean u can't hang with bros and just try to focus on school and sports it helps a lot. Find a girlfriend to talk about guys it helps a lot trust me make sure u can trust ur friends first though
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Reply by guest9999 Nov 12th, 2012 at 10:17AM
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Posted by crabby24 Sep 27th, 2012 at 9:21PM
I'm confused. Haha
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Posted by annadee Jul 2nd, 2012 at 10:37PM
It depends on what you mean by "gay things". If he's having anal intercourse with men, it probably does mean he's gay.
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Reply by guest9999 Jul 3rd, 2012 at 10:03AM
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Posted by Julienne2 Mar 28th, 2012 at 10:30AM
Does it matter? Life is a journey not a destination. Just give it a go, you never know how things will work out in the end....
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Posted by 12bert Mar 16th, 2012 at 7:42AM
Ask him. If he says yes he is telling the truth, if he says no he is lying.
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Reply by guest9999 Mar 16th, 2012 at 5:04PM
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Posted by MissJazz Mar 14th, 2012 at 6:12PM
You should ask a gay guy if he is gay. I have pretty good skills with knowing if a guy is gay but if I don't know I ask one of my friends they always know. He says its because gay guys know all gay guys haha whether that is true or not idk but it works for me.
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Reply by guest9999 Mar 15th, 2012 at 7:26AM
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Posted by Coyotedave611 Mar 14th, 2012 at 5:02PM
Yes and no
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