Leave any person that says this alone
It just sounds like bullsh!t, I have heard enough bullsh!t in my life to know what it is!
Then don't stay with the person. Is that fair to them?
Yes, sometimes women do.
yes because there is a huge difference.
yes. You can love the mind, personality but not have that special "chemistry".
Absolutely I try to be a loving person and love people, that does not mean I am in love with them.
continuing to love and be with said person is draining and emotional suicide.
instead you love them from a distance, because you are emotionally blocked off.
the right thing to do is for everyone to be happy.
there has to be some sort of medium.