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It's not like she has a cell phone or a facebook and I don't believe in sending gifts and gifts, she's already kinda spoiled and gets everything she wants. How do I stay in touch in a way that is somewhat menaingful?

Write letters and emails (if she doesn't have an email use her parents) Letters are great tho cuz they will help her to learn to read and write when she writes a letter back to you! I used to write letters to my niece all the time when she was little. Just a simple note to say hi, and to tell her something that I was doing and I asked her a few questions. She loved her notes and her mom did too cuz it gave her the experience of reading and writing and creating letters. You might include pictures of you or something important in your life and have her do the same. Also, you could see about setting up video chat with her ... I hear Skype is good for this...
You could send every so often, care packages with little things... nothing big, just simple things like stickers, journal, maybe fancy stationary for her to use to write you letters with. A simple little book for her to read.
I hope this helps..
Let me know how it goes!
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