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I need help.. Again

Ok, so I like this girl and was rejected about a month ago.. Today a friend asked her if she liked me. From what he says it was yes. What should I do next. In the way of "next steps" ( also I can't date)
So please help. Anything is useful

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    praythypacifist - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by praythypacifist Feb 20th, 2013 at 9:42PM

    If she does indeed like you, maybe you were rejected because she wasn't sure back then? or maybe she rejected you so she could think about it some more? I was once asked out by a girl and i instinctively said no, but i liked her and beat myself up for not thinking, maybe the same thing happened to her??? Or maybe your friend is joking around so you'd ask her again

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  1. Cosmonaut - 13-15 years old - male

    Reply by Cosmonaut Feb 20th, 2013 at 9:43PM

    Thanks, this is really helpful. I appreciate the help

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  2. praythypacifist - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by praythypacifist Feb 20th, 2013 at 9:49PM

    All goods, I should add though, girls like confidence... dont go up and be nervous, treat her like a friend and ask her casually and with confidence

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  1. Rivfader - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Rivfader Feb 20th, 2013 at 10:10PM

    If you can't date, then wtf difference does it make? It's not like she's just gonna come over to blow you while you play Xbox, lol!

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  2. petul - 36-40 years old

    Posted by petul Feb 20th, 2013 at 11:09PM

    see adults all they really want to do this is flag it and direct the child to some parental authority to deter would be behavior and help thwart actions that could land the child in isolation and be left requiring mental health treatment. At the child's age he could be looking at a whole long list of potentially drastic interventions involving medications being prescribed for behavior modification if he starts acting out with the females or his peers in general or if he gets too upset or too irrational with his parental authority figure(s). No other adult besides the child's parental authority figure in his life can give him any advice because his age comes with a statue of limitations if any wrong thing is said to him and possibly abuse and neglect criminal charges if they insult even. See it is not that adults do not want to give him some friendly parental advice it is that they really cannot risk being associated with an offspring that isn't their own if it isn't their job. This is the biggest problem with this site is that the minors are not restricted to their own age groups and moderated by professionals. While the topic of minors liking each other is one of growth and development of the mind some different issues could be causing the minor to wonder if girls like him. While we adults all wonder why and what is the reason for the question, the question itself could be what is the bother. Like he may not wonder and wonder why he's not wondering about females. The youth they are the strength of humanity and the stability of society with the concern and protecting from harm and others we all try to give them, it helps to set the standard of how we ourselves would like to be treated in the eyes of the law and protection the law gives us, even if it is solely by getting away from other people's children because we don't know exactly how to answer any of them when they are not our own and when somebody else child asks a question any adult who is a parent themselves with honest morale and decent values wants to send them to their parents we can't help as as adult people with or without children that we do not want to be responsible for any influence on them. It ain't my job, but I think that if the kid is looking for females to talk with it could be based on a hormonal analog drug and possible to much fyi given to the kid about his own medical treatment. My guess. SO if it is correct, it's like this, anything of medical will also present signs in psychology, common cold as it is forming, flu as it ceases, so slight it does take a shrink to notice it, and a durn good one, everything effects the mind, everything, without a doubt, the medication could be impacting , but it's provisions out weight the risks.It doesn't mean unsound, it means living, alive and mind working, but it might need to get checked out by a professional. I could be wrong.

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  3. teenab - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by teenab Feb 20th, 2013 at 10:35PM

    Ask her what you should do and why can't you date?

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  4. Cosmonaut - 13-15 years old - male

    Reply by Cosmonaut Feb 20th, 2013 at 10:40PM

    I don't know but my dads girlfriend is very... Uptight about dating

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  5. teenab - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by teenab Feb 20th, 2013 at 10:43PM

    Is she the one or is she the Boss...and if you can't date why is this a big problem?

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  6. Anicia47 - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by Anicia47 Feb 20th, 2013 at 9:49PM

    well if you don't like her anymore reject her but if you do then maybe try talking to her, being friendly but flirty

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  7. WizGeezer - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by WizGeezer Feb 20th, 2013 at 9:40PM

    Talk to her on the phone or do what kids your age do best: text message her 500 times a day.

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  8. belial259 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by belial259 Feb 20th, 2013 at 9:40PM

    Wait and see if she says something. If she does. Reject her.

    Revenge is sweet.

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  9. Cosmonaut - 13-15 years old - male

    Reply by Cosmonaut Feb 20th, 2013 at 9:47PM

    I'm not goin to do that, cause I like Her

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  10. belial259 - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by belial259 Feb 20th, 2013 at 9:52PM

    But she rejected you. How did that feel? Did you like that? Wasn't very nice was it?

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