Well I always say the first step is confidence. If you think of your self as ugly, everyone else might as well think of you as ugly. See the handsome within and do what ever you need to do to make you feel good about your appearance (workout, acne cream, soap and deodorant, steak etc.) Looks don't mean shittysquak to some girls, this is where personality comes in. If you can make people laugh, you're basically perfect (well that's what u should tell yourself) but if you're negative 24/7 thats something to fix, or of you don't talk at all to the opposite sex just smile and ask to use a pencil for practice. Don't think of girls as a big deal. And look for the rriiight girls. The ones who look bitchhhy at all times. Those are off limits. Ugh I'm babbling I hope my tips were helpful. If you tell yourself you're sexy in the mirror everyday you'll believe it eventually. Not cocky just confident (:
Girls are weird we laugh at everything I can give you a heartfelt compliment if u want like in a completely non cybercreepy way if thats possible
I too need help but on a different issue.