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I need insight here?

There is this man who is bent on making me hate him. I do not associate with him and he is not a part of my life, yet he makes me a part of his life EVERYDAY but in a negative way. I beleive his source of hatred towards me is based on rumors he hears from my enemies. Why won't he come to me and ask me instead of acting out his unecessary hate? Is he EMOTIONALLY delayed? I am not understanding his problem. Any of it! I kind of want to laugh but is this serious and how do I get rid of him?
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emotionally delayed.. perfect word!
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 3:26AM
confrontation is a good start, you know men cower at the very thought
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 3:27AM
why do you care what he wants? Live your life, ignore him, if you let him bother you he gets what he wants
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 3:29AM
He is shallow and imagines he's gaining acceptance by others maybe. Like the other poster says ... confront him. Ask him what he thinks hes doing.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 3:32AM
Next time you see him and there are other people around just do what you want him to do. Ask him out loud what his problem is ? What is he being so childish about? Tell him to grow up and to discuss his gripe like an adult. Make sure others can hear you. He will either tell you and you can sought it tout or he will curl up in to a ball and not bother you again.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 3:33AM
he's crazy
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 3:37AM
Why exactly do you have "enemies"? You might want to look into resolving that issue in your life. That can't be good.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 3:38AM
When hes around a lot of ppl and he starts his bull just walk up to him and look him dead on and say loud enough for others to hear.. Have you got a problem with me? face him and get him to own up to his child like bullying.. least it will be out in the open and u will find out whats going on instead of wondering why hes doing what hes doing... good luck:)
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 3:39AM
blank him out,forget about him,get him off your mind,..he doesnt deserve to be there.he's just a doughnut!
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