I need sum1 to help. I need 4 my family to think I am alive after I am dead.?

Ok, My Friend, Brace Yourself and keep in mind here that I wish to Speak The Truth In Love. I want you to know I am gonna give it to you exactly as I would my nearest and dearest friend, so this is not meant to sound "mean". With that said, I want you to re-read what you wrote. REAL CLOSELY. Did you see what I saw once you re-read it? This is what I saw....."I need....my family to think....after I am dead..." WHAT????? YOU NEED WHAT after you are dead? I am not so sure you quite have a grip on this at all. YOU NEED NOTHING AFTER YOU ARE DEAD. With that out of the way,please let me ask you something. Have you stopped to think about what YOUR FAMILY may NEED or WISH or REQUIRE once you are dead??? Have you really taken measures to help them through the loss of you? Burial insurance,life insurance,photo albums,letters written to be opened later,videos,keepsakes,family heirlooms,treasures,a notebook of memories???? Now,also,with THAT said, how do YOU know your family is going to OUT LIVE you???And, have you taken measures to HELP YOURSELF through the grief that comes with losing a loved one should you find yourself here and one or more of them NOT??? You have a lot of serious soul searching to do, and I want to be the first to congratulate you in beginning the process, because that is what you have done. You are thinking and reflecting and seeking wisdom and answers. Good for you. Many people never even begin exploring the deeper things inside themselves. You have, and for that you deserve credit. Keep up the good work! It is a Glorious Series of Discoveries that are beyond description. YOU GO,GIRL!!!

It's easier to fake a death than fake a life.
Grief is the only way to recover from something as life changing as the loss of a loved one.
If you're dying of your own accord, I ask you to reconsider and seek help. There are many who love you and you can prevent them from grieving by reconsidering.
If you're dying through no fault of your own, I'm sorry and I wish you the best of luck. Spend as much time as you can. Don't think too much about how they'll grieve. Give them some extra memories before you go.

You need help!...............Help WE cannot give you!!

umm more details?

What do you mean?

More details, please.

I ama not sure how to answer this one . Why would this be?

Live more positively, usefully, progressively.

please do not kill yourself. if you don't want your family to hurt after your death then live your life to the fullest and come what may. or else they'll blame yourself for you not being happy enough

Why not try and enjoy living your life to the full and let your family do what they need to do.

Grieving is natural part of growth, it is their right

By making them feel how much you love and care for them. Showing it everyday. Being a good example and the good advices/wisdom you taught them will forever be remembered. When we are gone, surely people will not see us anymore but for the example and good things we did for them they will always remember the love/wisdom we gave them will always guide and always be within them..... thus will make us forever alive

This idea is intriguing. I would love to hear from my late hubby, just to know that all is well. (he'd be pissed that I'm drinking so much though)

If you find something out, let me know.