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I never like the guys who treat me good&are nice to me,i always fall for the ones who treat me like crap,whys this?

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12 Answers to "I never like the guys who treat me good&are nice to me,i always fall for the ones who treat me like crap,whys this?"

  1. Peter90 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Peter90 Apr 25th, 2012 at 8:01PM

    Stop asking questions and make me a sandwich then!

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  2. minatek616 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by minatek616 Apr 25th, 2012 at 7:55PM

    as a woman you are completely insane, it's just nature

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  3. LizardKing - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by LizardKing Apr 25th, 2012 at 7:49PM

    Ahh yes, it is because you always want what you can't fully have, and those other kind of guys are mysterious to you and you are always vying for their affection, hoping to win them over. And guess what, if you ever do and get them to change, you won't be attracted to them anymore!

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  4. Woodwose - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Woodwose Apr 25th, 2012 at 7:49PM

    Probably because you don't value yourself enough.

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  5. lovesta - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by lovesta Apr 26th, 2012 at 5:24AM

    Good boys are boring..... u want a thrill

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  6. Govinda1337 - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by Govinda1337 Apr 25th, 2012 at 9:43PM

    People are desperate for all the wrong reasons. Give yourself some time look around for someone that genuinely deserves your affections.

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  7. BrotherOfTheLeavZ - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by BrotherOfTheLeavZ Apr 25th, 2012 at 9:18PM

    Its more predictable that way. You are more comfortable knowing what to expect.

    A better question might be: " In what ways can I elevate my own self -images."
    __yes, images ...

    Look at the roles you dwell in. Who are you when you date? Who are you when you do the usual stuff?
    What role do you take on when you get to know a man?

    Are you gradually setting your self up to be mistreated?

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  8. divinegrace - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by divinegrace Apr 25th, 2012 at 8:06PM

    Look at the relationship you had with the male figures in your life and see if your repeating the pattern, whether it's positive or negative. Then again there's slim pickin's out there, you could have self esteem issues or need to look at your addictive behaviors, bad boys! Love yourself, figure out what that looks like and play the field until you find some one decent. I know one women who didn't meet anyone until she was 45 she had a loving father and no man came close to treating her as well until late in her life. Your pretty cute so I bet you have a lot of guys coming around.

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  9. jamesmethod - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by jamesmethod Apr 25th, 2012 at 8:01PM

    Maybe your picking Guys that are out of your class, Really good looking guys you feel Lucky to have,and you let them treat you like Crap. Because your afraid to loose them. Just remember, they can't treat you like Crap unless you let them.If you Jump their a$$ the first time they try it. maybe they won't do it again. You have to Train them.

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  10. MrsJoanieBNH - 56-60 years old

    Posted by MrsJoanieBNH Apr 25th, 2012 at 7:54PM

    Instincts over wisdom and experience! It's basically your need to see something powerful and courageous in your love interests! Unfortunately there are no longer dragons to slay or Empires to conquer! Unless it's on the xbox, the only outlet left for some adult child, with too much testosterone and no place worthwhile in disperse it. Look instead for the worthy guy with cause and can add to your family health, financial benefit devotion and dependability should be your tough guy

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  11. Christyna - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Christyna Apr 25th, 2012 at 7:50PM

    This could be for a variety of reasons. One you possibly did not have a positive father figure in your life so you are choosing bad boys. Two you could have bipolar disorder and like the chaos because it is stimulating. Three we are only attracted to relationships that are the same level of mental health status that we are so maybe you need to focus on your mental health for awhile to overcome a challenge. Four self-esteem issues.

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  12. OriginOfEmotion - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by OriginOfEmotion Apr 25th, 2012 at 7:49PM

    I too would like to know why this happens :/

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