Write off the trinket [re] think it, and move on.. she is obviously nit worth the toss. Throw yourself into a healthier pond.
Look for someone more worthy of you. What she did was very rude, and you deserve better than that.
It could just be a shock and she needs time to think about it and discuss it with a few close friends or family. Just keep your fingers crossed and be patient.
then u should be an indian.. right??????????
If you weren't there in person, and proposed marriage - that was seriously bad taste. She's probably shocked and annoyed that you would do something so big off any other way, making it as if it were not an important issue.
Maybe it was too much too soon for her, and she didn't know how to respond. She has placed distance between you.
Let her go.
Find someone else.