I really like my ex's best friend but and he likes me and we're both still friends with my ex what should I do?
I was dating my first love for awhile and towards the end of our relationship I became really close with his friend to the point where we became best friends. We would always flirt because that's just what people do and one night he kissed me. And I broke up with my boyfriend for a number of reasons but mostly because I couldn't live with the fact that I was starting to feel something for someone else. We've been broken up for about 6 months now and I'm still best friends with my ex and his friend. I really like his friend and his friend really likes me too and we're really good together, I'm a good influence on him and my family loves him and his family loves me. It's all a little too perfect except for the fact that we can't be together because we care so much about my ex. I need help and I can't talk to anyone I know about this because us hooking up is a huge secret that can't get out because we don't want my ex to get hurt. How should I handle this situation??