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I really like this boy, everything is going wrong in his life at the moment though. I dont know what to do ?

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Well if you like him that much, then all you can do is give him support and make sure he knows you are there for him; hard to give specific advice when you have not said what is actually going wrong!! Good luck with what happens though x
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 5:48PM
I'm very, VERY glad you didin't give us your life story like other people who ask a question like this. It's very refreshing.

The only thing you can do is be supportive; if he's doing drugs, offer him rehab. If his family has no food, cook them dishes to eat. If he has no place to stay, offer him a bed.

Just be civil, be supportive, and be a loving person.
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 8:32PM
Not sure what would be wrong with more details really. Its only a speculative answer when we don't know the whole story. Anyhow, I will try to tell you with what I know from what I have experienced in my 40yrs of life.

Be his friend, don't try to complicate things too much for him by trying to add in a romantic aspect. He needs your support and your friendship more than anything else.

When you say "boy" I assume you are both quite young and that perhaps he is still living at home? I don't know what his home life is, but it is really the parents responsibility to help him if he has some serious issues, if they aren't helping but hurting him worse, than perhaps you can find some other adults, counselors, clergy, call a help center even to help him through this tough time.

Life can throw us some pretty heavy stuff, if you are not well-equiped to help him with it, than be a friend, give him support and try to get him help and that's all you can do.
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 11:58PM
we are like in opposite places,in this question...my life at the moment sux and this boy really likes me....but i feel like i wanna tell him everything and let him take it away,but he can't he won't understand,and if i tell him and he want to leave...it would kind of suck big time.so my advice just don't go too far away from him and be there. take him away from it all. somewhere quiet so u guys can talk about it if he wants to...and dream together.
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Posted Jun 28th, 2009 at 10:25AM
Assuming this stuff isn't somethign he is bringing on him self by say drugs, alcohall, attitude problem etc, you could be one of the few things that goes rigt in his life.
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Posted Jun 28th, 2009 at 10:53AM
Be there for him, if he sees you care about him and love him even during the worst times in his life then he'll know you don't just want him for sex or something and he'll know your love is genuine. It might be hard because depending on his problems he might try to push you away, but if you're firm about staying with him then I think when he works everything out you guys might have something there :)
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Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 7:01AM
Be there for him, become the only thing that is going right in his life
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