All of your moments make you who you are. Good or bad accept your experiences and move forward to better. I heard from someone once that there are no fails-just results. Learn from your mistakes and enjoy life
Let it all out, life is an ebb and flow of triumph and pain. It takes the bad to understand the good and vice versa, be honest with your self and your feelings but understand that you will get through this but its entirely how you get through it that will determine if these bad times make you a better, stronger person in the end. Stay thirsty my friend
God knows your heart.
In that case find the tequila!
Start with one thing.
I've got a better idea.
Own them. Take responsibility for them, and the consequences that happened because of them. LEARN from them.
As I once wrote in a poem (The Lonely King, posted on EP for your reading pleasure):
" The Lord replied, "Submit my son
Realise that what is done, is done
You cannot change that which is Past
Graven deep in stone, history is cast "
It doesn't take strength to take possession of what has been yours all this time. It only takes courage, and the smarts to understand the lessons and gain the wisdom to NOT make those same mistakes again.
You'll make it. I got faith in you. Pretty astounding words, coming from an atheist. ;)
Oh sweetheart that's not what you need to do.
You need to forgive yourself for any wrong doings and just try to learn from the experiences.
People do the best they can with the information they have at the time.
Every single person in this world has done wrong as we are not perfect.
Stop beating yourself up right now.
Rest, be kind to yourself as your are worthy of whatever you want from your life. The Past is over, we only have the present which then turns into the future.
Ask for help from friends, family don't be Alone and suffer this pain in silence.
Whatever you have done or feel you have done is over.
Please forgive yourself and stop being so hard.
If your life was somebody else's would you feel compassion for that person? Because you should
Remember everybody feels like this sometimes.
Your not alone, never forget your not alone xxx
well find it because its worth it to do that
When you come face too face with all those moments you simply let them go :) Don't misunderstand this as forgetting them for that does not happen