The cruelty of life...sometimes we chase people who ignore us, and ignore the one that really care about us :(
you're not ready to settle down? you still want fun and excitement? you're more interested in hot studs than in husband material?<br />
follow your heart. if that's what you want, you're not going to make yourself happy by forcing yourself to make your mother happy.
because you like the chase?
could it be that you are shallow and superficial. Next time you are looking for a warm heart or warm bed try not looking at the surface but deeper into the water.
I did not intend to sound mean.....just a honest answer to your question
Consider that you have an inferiority complex and you want everyone to like you. You need to focus on liking who you are now, and not continue to waste your time trying to convince yourself you are attractive, desirable and likable by everyone -- you already are! If some guys like you, experience what it is like to truly have a relationship with someone not only cares about you, but wants to peel back your protective la<x>yers, one at a time, to make your relationship with a guy even more intimate and rewarding!