There is no helping you.
You fúcked up. Tell her what you did and deal with the consequences of not being able to keep your legs closed.
That might sound especially venomous and such, but it's true. You fúcked up.
Help how? Seems like you already know how to do it.
me too lol
You're a *****. your sister deserves better than that from both you and him.
Here, call Jerry Springer. I am sure he can help you out!
Or Maury, depending on possible pregnancies
Awesome! Have fun with the fall out from that.
You are a back stabber and he is a worthless man *****.................now how may I help you?
Wow. There a lot of judgment going on, here. What you did was not good. Most of us make moral mistakes at some point, especially when we're young. At least I know I did, more than I care to talk about. The most important thing to remember is that this will pass.
I think SeeMyself's answer is pretty spot-on. But don't tell her impulsively because you think it will make you feel better. First, think about her. Is she better off knowing, or not knowing? If she's in a really serious relationship with him, it's one thing; if it's just a passing thing between them, it's very different. Next, think about him. Was it just a momentary craze between you and him, or is there intense lust that's apt to ignite again if you're around him? Does he feel genuinely bad about what he did? Do you think he's apt to do it again, with someone else if not you? Or do you think he's committed to her, and this is a one-time mistake?
These are all questions you need to consider very carefully before you decide what to do. Just remember that what's most important at this point is to understand what's best for her, what she needs to know, not what will make you feel better. One last: does anyone else know? Is the boyfriend a talker, a bragger, maybe? Because if anyone else at all knows, your sister's going to find out sooner or later, and that will be worse for everyone than if she learned it from youright away.
Someday your sister will thank you for opening her eyes to the 2-timing scumbag. If she ever speaks to you again.
you ******* slag
What can you do to make it better? Probaly staying out of there relationship from now on and realizing that if the boyfriend wasn't mature enough to keep his **** to himself that the relationship wasn't going to last either way. It's not the betrayal of the BF that will hurt the most but you betrayal to your sister.
There is no help for you. Never cross that line with family.
You crossed the line. If you get reprisals from your family you brought it on yourself.
You're the one who screwed up. You violated your sister's trust. Tell her and hope that she forgives you and her boyfriend, even though her boyfriend is a piece of crap for screwing you.
I wouldn't tell her if I were you, that would just be silly. Just pretend it never happened, that is what I would do.
That is called cowardice :P
Yes, and I am the master of it. :-P
u re a biatch :D you abondoned a lifetime relationship with your sister to get laid !!
There is only one way to tell her......see her tell her how much you love her and would never want to hurt her. Tell her your bond as sisters is stronger than men who will come and go. You leave a cake that she will open once you leave. Top of cake should say "Sorry, I slept with your boy friend". Bad news is better with cake.
that's a pretty low down thing for both of you to do. So...what's your next move? a sharp knife in her back?
well should have thought about that before you jumped into bed with him!
What does he want you to do? I think you should be honest and tell you sister, okay he cheated on her with you, but what if does it again with someone else, doesn't seem fair on her.
We all make mistakes sometimes so don't be so hard, but what you did was still wrong
Oh,this could get very ugly.There isn't anything anyone can do to help.She is going to find out one way or the other eventually...it's only a matter of time here.
Was it good ?