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I sometimes think about men?

I am a guy and sometimes I think about men my mom tells me that god hates gay people and nobody at my school likes gay people but some times I think about girls I don't know who to like.
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I believe God loves ALL people regardless of your race, your sexual preference, your gender, your hair & eye color... He loves everybody... I mean, why wouldn't He? He created everyone!
I don't know your age, but it may be a while before you figure it all out. Don't worry, just enjoy hanging with your friends and see what life brings to you...
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 5:23AM
At your age, this is completely appropriate. Many guys explore sexuality with each other - doesn't necessarily mean you are gay, but if you are, so what? I disagree with your mom. I know God loves everyone.

You need to ask yourself a few questions. When you are thinking about guys, is it just about what the physical experience would be like, or are you actually attracted emotionally to other guys?

Be very careful about whom you discuss this with - these are strange times and there aren't many people you can trust with this kind of information.
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 11:47PM
God doesn't hate anybody..... Mankind hates ..........
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 4:07AM
Maybe you are questioning your sexuality, which is perfectly normal (and it's not just gay or straight, you could be bi too, if you find you still like both girls and guys).

There is nothing wrong with that, and God will not hate you no matter what sexual orientation you end up having. Don't worry about "who to like" just experience life and love and you'll figure it out.
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 2:55AM
then i think some thing missing in upper roof.. check it.
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 2:11PM
Being attracted to both sex's is referred to as being bi-sexual. Some people do not condone this kind of behaviour while others do.
Let it be known there are many others out there like you feeling confused and wondering what's right or wrong. But really there is no right or wrong it's up to you, what feels right for you? male, female or both it is becoming increasingly more common/acceptable to be gay or bi-sexual.
Open your mind don't close it.
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 2:00AM
I agree with pixelita
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 1:28AM
Dude, if you're still at school you don't need to decide yet.

Yeah, God hates gays, and the Japanese. Just kidding :)
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 12:30AM
I agree completely with midlifemadness! God loves you however you are! Its okay to have those feelings, don't try and hide them and you will figure things out in time
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 12:33AM
try kissing a guy... I know that seems insane but go to a gay bar or something and have a few drinks and kiss a guy.. trust me you will know after that kiss if you are gay or not. I had the same issue where I was thinking of a few girls that way but I really like guys. But I just had to know what was up with my thoughts. Well one night I went out and drank alittle to much and my friend kissed me. Dont get me wrong, it was a great kiss but I realized in that moment that I was most definatly straight. Good luck.
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 1:14AM
Making love to another man's rear end is... well... making love to a man's rear end... Not my idea of any kind of real meaning.
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 1:20AM
it happens to anyone my dear boy. You are afraid of being strange from people that can make they think you are sick? Be happy always cause it is the meaning of life!
Dont think much about it. You can do everything you wanna. Even however you are, if you feel happy, it means ok
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 1:25AM
God loves you
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 9:15AM
Since you are still young don't worry about it. Your sexual identity will emerge as you get older and gain more experience with relationships and all that. Lots of teens find some attraction to the saem gender but that does nto mean they are gay; though it might. You just need o let life play out as it will for you. For the moment concentrate on being a teen and enjoying life through school, friendhsips, sports and whatever other activities you can get into.

As for the god thing, don't let that one worry you. In the same text it is also written that god disapproves equally of eating shellfish, cutting your hair and wearing clothes of mixed fibres. But those are not in the big 10 commandments; they are merely the rules of men set at that time and in that place. So, unless you plan to travel back in there to live in those days, you are fine with eating shellfish,. cutting your hair, wearing polyester-cotton shirts and liking other guys.

And as for the perceptions of those in yrou area, they may be as anti-gay as they seem. Many people voice disapporval but when faced with it as a reality they find out it isn't all that horrible. Not that you need to run around tellign everyone you like guys, just don;t let them bother you. And if you do discover you are actually gay then you are free to seek another place to be when you reach college age.
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 4:25PM
You are probably bi-sexual. You may like them both. There is nothing wrong with that. I liked both for a few years when I was younger, and my wife knew about it before we got married. I am now divorced and TOTALLY, OPENLY gay. Don't put a lot a pressure on yourself because you think about men. We all do! Just be true to yourself and ignore everyone that says that god hates gay people. Gay people are born gay. We didn't wake up one day and say, "Geez, I think I'm gonna start sucking **** today." We are born gay. And since their god is perfect and doesn't make mistakes...I am meant to be gay and I know that my Goddess loves me. You can text me anytime if you care to talk. I hate gay-bashing, even if it's verbal.
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 11:46PM
God does not hate anyone, he hates actions. Be good to others. Use your brain instead of believing everything you hear. Dont hurt others or yourself.
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