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I still totally love him but, I feel way happier that he is gone and I don't get it.. help me sort this out?

I haven't cried I always cry, none of my friends believe me.. but really I am happy.. but I do keep talking about him.. so I am confused, but I FEEL GREAT!!!!

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    m0ckingbird - 18-21 years old

    Posted by m0ckingbird 1 Feb 13th, 2012 at 11:46PM

    maybe because you still want to enjoy life as single, and your just used to your past relationship.

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  1. thelongwait - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by thelongwait Feb 13th, 2012 at 11:57PM

    this is EXACTLY correct!!!

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7 Answers to "I still totally love him but, I feel way happier that he is gone and I don't get it.. help me sort this out?"

  1. deeken - 36-40 years old

    Posted by deeken Feb 13th, 2012 at 11:36PM

    I think I need a break right now. I still care for her, but sometimes need a break from her personality.

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  2. BennDover - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by BennDover Feb 13th, 2012 at 11:36PM

    When you are used to having someone there they will be on your mind for a while. Just like if you had a best friend that moved to a different country...you would always talk about them

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  3. thelongwait - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by thelongwait Feb 13th, 2012 at 11:38PM

    see that makes sense.... ty

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  4. Mariner2 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Mariner2 Feb 13th, 2012 at 11:36PM

    Why do you feel happier because you're not getting it?
    Now I'm confused too, cuz I love getting it!

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  5. thelongwait - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by thelongwait Feb 13th, 2012 at 11:37PM

    nooooooooooooo has not to do with that..... we had a sorta multi faceted type relationship and I can get "it" whenever I want so it was deeper you know like depth not like oh **** never mind

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  6. Mariner2 - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by Mariner2 Feb 13th, 2012 at 11:39PM

    LOL . . . I'm just messin with ya sweety! Perhaps you're happier because when e is gone you don't have to deal with underlying issues associated with the relationship

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  7. TheJudgernaut - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by TheJudgernaut Feb 13th, 2012 at 11:35PM

    Embrace the change, especially since you know it has lifted a giant off of you.

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  8. thelongwait - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by thelongwait Feb 13th, 2012 at 11:36PM

    thank you I have not even read your answer yet but for some reason I trust you..

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  9. thelongwait - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by thelongwait Feb 13th, 2012 at 11:36PM

    yes relief that is what I feel..

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  10. johnnywillsave - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by johnnywillsave Feb 13th, 2012 at 11:35PM

    Maybe you just need a break?

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  11. thelongwait - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by thelongwait Feb 13th, 2012 at 11:35PM

    hmm have you read the other post about the journal.. you could be right tho...

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  12. johnnywillsave - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by johnnywillsave Feb 13th, 2012 at 11:37PM

    No, what journal?

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  13. Babydoll42 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Babydoll42 Feb 13th, 2012 at 11:34PM

    Sometimes people can stay in your heart....even when they can no longer stay in your life.....

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