I tell women I meet from start that I analyze everything they do thuroughly. Why aren't they listening?

I can't say I would like that. You may be totally wrong in yoru analysis for one thing. For another thing did you ask them if they want your anlysis of a situation or did you just give it?

Also, I want a bf. I already have a therapist to go to for anlyses of my life situations. I wouldn't listen either unless I asked for your opinion then I might consider what you have to say. Otherwise keep it yourself.

Maybe they don't give a ****.

And what aren't they listening to ... you analyzing them? Why would they? They can go to a shrink for that .. and get a professional to do it to boot..lolol Are you surprised? especially when you tell them that is your intent.. not very attractive from a female aspect..

No one likes to hear they are going to be analysed. (Sounds more like a job interview/reassessment). It makes a person feel very self-conscious and judged. It’s like walking on egg shells; every move, word, and action examined and dissected. And it’s not hard to see that you might hurt their feelings if you misinterpret motivations or analyse incorrectly.

You say they don’t listen... Perhaps they think you’re joking? Perhaps you have some other quality they are charmed by; or enamoured with and forget your analytical behaviour or try to ignore it? Or perhaps they expect you to be more tactful in the delivery of your analysis? Perhaps they feel you are being critical of them?

I was going to say you should ask them, not us. But then if you’re asking us, one can assume that you are not receiving sufficient answers (if any answers at all). And it’s no wonder, when they may fear how you will analyse their answers.

Hearing isnt a required featured for most inflatable dolls.

Hmmm? What? Sorry, I missed the question.

Wow, probably because most women don't like to be thought of a science projects.

They are, I am sure.

Just because someone listens does not mean they have to like it, deal with it, or the such.

Find the lady that won't mind you analytical ways.

maybe you are boring the breasts off them or they just dont give a damm.

Women never listen lol =P

If a guy wanted to analyze me out of interest and getting to know me then fine, but if he wanted to analyze me to criticise me and point out all my wrongs then my foot will be analyzing his testicles in a nano second

HAHAHA probably because they don't take you seriously. If someone were to say that to me, I'd assume it was some kind of a joke because that's just an unbelievable thing to say.

Why would you be so judgmental expecting them to be perfect? Are you yourself perfect? What if you analyze what they do and come up with the wrong conclusion? If I were a woman I would be very turned off by you saying that. You should love them for who they are not what they do.

Analysis of a woman is best performed by a shrink, or by another woman.

people like you that analyze everything truly is sad.
why, Nobody is perfect. ( If so, prove you can walk on water)!

Maybe they are listening, maybe they are analyzing you.


I met someone like you once. We talked for a whole year
about everything! Then ,one day he said "we are like pen pals without the pen". He is searching for the perfect mate THERE IS NO SUCH THING!

I bet you dollars to doughnuts your just like him.

why, can't you analyze them silently like everyone else?

Ananlyze this ( maybe you should date a shrink:)
you might find the results your looking for.

because they think they will be different; it won't happen with them and they can change you. It's a woman-thing.

I would not care if he wanted to analyze everything I do or say it matter no more than it matter to him that I too am analyzing him,,,people should analyze each other,,,As far as the listening goes, well nobody said anything about giving opioins,,abou t what you have analyzed listening is an opption,,,just as much an the analyzing is,,,no body said that they had to obey you,,,and as far as the guy who said women never listen,,,well men don't listen much better,,,so lets keep it real,,,Love and Light Mary

We don't like being told what to do.

I would find being analyzed constantly to be very rude self assuming and condesending.