because its nothing to aspire to , its more like something that happens to you. even though that is probably a fallacy.
well i think they acquire a couple of cats and then another one and another and they find them such good company they cant stop acquiring them and they get a whole houseful, they dont get out,, and they get mental problems. so is that something you would aspire to. i guess its a cas e of what cat lady means to you. to me (with 3 cats before 1 died) it is a negative stereotype
let it be
They are jealous that's all, you go girl!
Because the total title is "the crazy old cat lady who never found a man".
oh god... XD