**** her and worry later...it's the only option for me
As a new friend to you, I'd have to say, "When you know he is gone for a while, invite her over to your place for coffee and begin a conversation that will lead to sex and her desires and wants. Allow her to tell you that she is open to having you fill her emptiness when her husband is gone. DO NOT make any moves on her, 'luvsall' is right, women cannot keep their mouths shut and she will tell hubby that you made a pass on her. If she opens her blouse or drops her shorts, Katy-bar-the-door, she's yours for the taking and you should take your time and completely enjoy yourself!!!!!
you are playing with fire. women cant keep their mouths shut.