I think my husband met up with a shemale. Not sure what to do or why he did it
I found some sent emails to a shemale asking if they could meet. Then I found a username and password to a shemale site. I went in and under his user name found a review of this shemale. An intimate review.
Things don't add up though. I've searched phone and text messages and nothing (review said he called and text) didn't just check the phone I checked paper records. I checked bank statements too and no larger withdraws. I'm wondering if it was just to get off and he didn't really meet the person. I'm so hurt and confused.
10 Answers to "I think my husband met up with a shemale. Not sure what to do or why he did it"
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Talk to him in a civil manner. Don't be confrontational at all, he'll only deny it if you do..try to find out why he's doing this. Put NO BLAME on either of you.
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Tell him you have been thinking about having a shemale join the two of you in a three-way and see how he reacts!
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It depends. Are you interested in a three way with the shemale and him? Is it a shemale or a tranny?
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Its probably the betrayal more than the fact he likes transwomen. Just make sure you dont direct your anger towards them, rather than your husband.
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If you found no record maybe he was just playing around. Maybe you could go rent a adult film of that variety and plop i in the dvr or vcr and see what he says. All else fails just ask him. Or show him the slip of paper with the name and stuff on it
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Maybe he's been watching RuPaul's Drag Race and he was curious.
Ask him about it.
Better yet, watch the show with him and see if he gets a *****.Like (1)
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Try a strap-on
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Well first of all set your hurt aside and deal with the confused. When you say review was it done by your husband... is there anything else that you have seen on the site like a msg email system or something.. and dosnt it bother you that your husband wants to suck ****... I mean that in itself is kind of bad.. have you had a talk with him about this and has he shown any curiosity about it? I mean you could probably totally save your relationship so dont start freaking out.
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It does bother me that is why I'm asking. I don't know what to do. I like the idea of buying some DVDs
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He hasn't shown interest before. There was email MSG system but nothing going in or out. The review was done under his user name
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maybe he wants a better housekeeper
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by PinksWoman 1 Jan 17th, 2013 at 1:56PM
Confront him about it and let him explain. Perhaps hi is bi-curious, a lot of men are
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Reply by Notsurewhy2 Jan 18th, 2013 at 12:08AM
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