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I thought having crushes were for high school and college. Now, I am nearing 40 & I have a crush. What's wrong with me?

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18 Answers to "I thought having crushes were for high school and college. Now, I am nearing 40 & I have a crush. What's wrong with me?"

  1. elle7777 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by elle7777 Oct 25th, 2012 at 8:56AM

    Crushes and love know no age

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  2. littleone7733 - 41-45 years old

    Posted by littleone7733 Jan 8th, 2013 at 7:21PM

    Absolutely nothing ma'am. You are alive is all.

    Be safe, have fun and enjoy.

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  3. 2821202j - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by 2821202j Oct 25th, 2012 at 2:05PM

    got news for you - it has nothing to do with age - it is biology - i am over 50 married had a crush on someone at work and regret to this day i did not act on it tried to message this part to u - it would not let me send - the crush is full of emotion some good some bad - it gets a lot more difficult if you have the occasion to be intimate - if you take that step be prepared for dramatic increase in the degree of good and bad emotions -

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  4. UnderEli - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by UnderEli Oct 25th, 2012 at 9:10AM

    Golly! I can't fathom what's the matter. A crush at 40!! What the--?

    Oh, yeah! Life begins at 40, so don't worry.

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  5. PinkSugarplum - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by PinkSugarplum Oct 25th, 2012 at 9:10AM

    Crushes are healthy and normal. :) Congratulations. Sorry you can't act on it. That makes it hard. You can't determine who your heart loves - it just loves.

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  6. mb670 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by mb670 Oct 25th, 2012 at 9:05AM

    Nothing is wrong with you. Crushes are natural. You are going to find people attractive and desireable throughout your life regardless of your relationship status

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  7. sueperman - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by sueperman Oct 25th, 2012 at 9:01AM

    It means you're human.

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  8. heavyduty1 - 66-70 years old - male

    Posted by heavyduty1 Oct 25th, 2012 at 9:00AM

    Don't panic, friend. On public transit rides, I fall in love two or three times per trip, and I'm 67.

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  9. StarMommyO - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by StarMommyO Oct 25th, 2012 at 9:05AM

    Sweet :)

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  10. Dot11 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Dot11 Oct 25th, 2012 at 8:56AM

    Awww that's cute. You have a crush! :-)

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  11. StarMommyO - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by StarMommyO Oct 25th, 2012 at 9:05AM

    *blushing* I guess this should make me feel young! Ha

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  12. Eilena - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by Eilena Oct 25th, 2012 at 8:54AM

    Crushes are for any age group

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  13. Bptvlk14 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Bptvlk14 Oct 25th, 2012 at 8:53AM

    Nothing, to me that seems perfectly healthy.

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  14. IrishEyes84 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by IrishEyes84 Jan 12th, 2013 at 6:28PM

    I thought I was a rarity I'm 28 and I have a crush..on my teacher at college!! Makes me feel about sixteen! I have had this for months and it shows no sign of letting up. How annoying as well that he is someone forbidden! He is everything in a man that I like most, sexy, funny kind and intelligent of course! The sexiest man i have ever laid eyes on to be honest. I am so giggly after seeing him in class as well it's almost embarrassing! I hope he never knows it'd be too embarrassing! Good luck with this guy too that you are crushing on :)

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  15. Daddeyk - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Daddeyk Oct 25th, 2012 at 9:17AM

    Nothing is wrong with you. You just perceive it as being something wrong!

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  16. Boxersoff4u - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Boxersoff4u Oct 25th, 2012 at 9:03AM

    It means you're completely normal

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  17. Babydoll42 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Babydoll42 Oct 25th, 2012 at 8:58AM

    Nothing....you are perfectly normal

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  18. stevez24 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by stevez24 Oct 25th, 2012 at 8:57AM

    go get him

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  19. StarMommyO - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by StarMommyO Oct 25th, 2012 at 9:05AM

    I wish I could but there are so many complications. But he is still my best friend forever.

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  20. stevez24 - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by stevez24 Oct 25th, 2012 at 9:08AM

    sux

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  21. lahlahgwen - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by lahlahgwen Oct 25th, 2012 at 8:55AM

    Nothings wrong with you,,you don't say if your crush is male or female,,???????

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  22. StarMommyO - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by StarMommyO Oct 25th, 2012 at 9:01AM

    Oh my, I would never think of going for the same sex!!! He is a wonderful guy, a best friend.

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  23. lahlahgwen - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by lahlahgwen Oct 25th, 2012 at 9:46AM

    Well why do you feel awkward,,crushes never stop if you're lucky,,go and grab him,,and enjoyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.. XXXXXXXXXXXXXX,,I'm a female,,but you can have these kisses.

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  24. Keyzgerl - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Keyzgerl Oct 25th, 2012 at 8:54AM

    Do you think you're needy?

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  25. StarMommyO - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by StarMommyO Oct 25th, 2012 at 9:02AM

    Financially, no.. Emotionally, perhaps. Doesn't everyone dream of a perfect love?

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  26. Keyzgerl - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by Keyzgerl Oct 25th, 2012 at 9:04AM

    Honestly, I have never worried about the "love" thing. I do my best on my own. I was just asking if it was a possibility.

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