I have done that ! the end was absolutely disastrous..for both your sakes, tell him now. Nothing good will come out of it if you stay with him just because...
you are young and you are tooo nice. I have done it more than one time and it really was NO good for both him and me..you just will end up messed up.
there you go
Just tell them.
Feelings will be hurt either way. By staying you end up hurting yourself, by leaving you end up hurting him but I'd you leave at least you'll both be able to move on.
Stay and you end up feeling trapped.
Hmmm... This is hard... Tell them!
Its better to end it now as the longer you live a lie-the more it will hurt the other one.
Just say you can be just friends as that usually helps them accept its over.
you have to tell that person, hey, look, I really like you as a friend, but that's all I'm feeling towards you right now. I would like to stay friends if that is possible, but I can't be unfair to you or to me.
Break up. I stayed in that sort of relaionship enede up married and now my life is miserable.
If he was your best friend ask him if he wants to return to the wat it was. You might be surprised as he may feel the same
Advice from a man who's been stomped by a breakup
The best thing you can do is be straight forward
And on a side note don't give him the lets be friends thing it's gonna **** him off
Another side note if he's sensitive let it off easy don't be blunt, but being blunt kinda gets the job done and I actually prefer for the breakup to be straightforward
It's always hard when your nice ik
You owe it to yourself and him to tell him that. It could be you're moving to fast
Then don't....Just tell'em the way you said here
to easy to have others answer this for you. what do you think you should do and most importantly, what do YOU want to do? if you say you don't want to hurt him I'm gonna scream!
k...so far so good and i'll hold my scream for later. ;-) so, what are you gonna do and why?
please follow through, lass. if you do, you'll be ahead of most adults who lie and manipulate and hope the person "figures it out". I'd be lying if i said this couldn't jeopardize the friendship, but you have truth, respect, and his well-being in mind which is why he should know. he'll likely come around if he initially has difficulty...and you'll just have to reaffirm to him he's still your best friend. good luck. let us know what happens, please.
is he there??? please do it in person if he's not...i think i read on here somewhere he was your best friend before you dated. he certainly deserves a face-to-face, lass.
go back to him unless he tells you to leave. this is life, little one. get used to it, but learn how to know what you truly want in the future. now, go tend to your bestie...
i mean it endearingly so bite my head off if you so desire.
The only thing you can do: Just let him know how you feel and move on. There's no sense in stringing along someone you're not interested in being with. It's lame to him AND to you.
Finish it. What is making you stay in this relationship? You will hurt him more by dragging it out.
Thats not a good enough reason to stay in a relationship you dont want to be in. Let me put it this way. If you loved someone and you knew they didnt love you and never would, wouldnt you want them to end it?
You know what you need to do. Be nice sbout it though.
Tell him now before he falls in too deep.
be... without him.