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I used to have a good friend even though he was a diffrent nationality, then he god divorced. Now he wants to date me.

I am not intrested in him. Im not attracted to him at all. He asked me out a few times I kinda laughed it off. Then finally I told him I only liked him as a friend. I miss him listening to me and bieng there for me. Now he seems to be aggravated with me and enjoy the fact that Im having problems with my childs father. How do I handle him?

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    BennDover - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by BennDover 1 Jul 10th, 2012 at 10:29PM

    Are you sure he was a friend or just keeping you around as someone to fall back on incase it didn't work out with his wife?

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  1. redllip23 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by redllip23 Jul 10th, 2012 at 10:33PM

    He semed totally shocked by his wife cheating and moving back to her original country. He always listened well. He was not very social so i thought that was why he wanted a friendship with me.

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5 Answers to "I used to have a good friend even though he was a diffrent nationality, then he god divorced. Now he wants to date me."

  1. josh19852011 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by josh19852011 Jul 12th, 2012 at 9:37AM

    Sounds to me you led him on. Truth is though the guy a woman says she is not interested in or the one she always goes to talk to is the guy she should actually be giving a chance. They will than find out they were interested but just did not know it.

    You did sort of lead him on. No offense but he has a right to be upset.

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  2. redllip23 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by redllip23 Jul 13th, 2012 at 12:23AM

    Nah he dosent. People are responsible for their own thoughts and perception. He has no solid ground for believing id want to be more than friends.

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  3. josh19852011 - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by josh19852011 Jul 13th, 2012 at 5:36AM

    ? Than you need to read what you told us. If that is not leading someone on than what do you think always going to talk to him to listen and him being there for you means? It is easy to point blame but truth is it seems you are the one that started the problem.

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  4. Bear1956 - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by Bear1956 Jul 10th, 2012 at 10:49PM

    Beware of the 'rebound' date. Never a good thing.

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  5. redllip23 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by redllip23 Jul 10th, 2012 at 11:30PM

    Trust me I'd rather hang with my mom than date him sadly. just hate that he turned from our friendship

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  6. pegasuss - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by pegasuss Jul 10th, 2012 at 10:34PM

    How do you get God divorced?

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  7. redllip23 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by redllip23 Jul 10th, 2012 at 10:36PM

    *** hole

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  8. Sleeplessinla - 41-45 years old

    Reply by Sleeplessinla Jul 10th, 2012 at 11:36PM

    I was wondering the same thing!

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  9. Maia000 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Maia000 Jul 10th, 2012 at 10:32PM

    you let him go. if he was your REAL friend then he would stay your friend.

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