You will meet him/her and you will know he/her will be your friend.
Used to call my GF "Bambi" and i was all those things and still would be,..if she could only trust and be open and honest...Too bad she seems to suddenly flip and cut me off for like hardly any reason at all...Makes me sad...
I won't judge you, and il try to help if you need it :)
People should reserve judgement until they know the facts, not after they know the facts. Rational adults make judgments on their friends, that's how they evaluate their worth as people and if it is a good idea to have them in their lives. Other people, hang out with drug dealers and wonder why they got shot. Anyone worth having as a friend will have standards.
in all honesty that is what most people are looking for and few have found. best of luck on your search,