It's a huge issue that needs resolved and discussed. If he knows you will move on, he may tell you he would want one later, just to keep you. But that would only make matters worse.
I think it depends on what 'doesn't right now' means. If he means not in the next 6 months or a year or so, but definitely will want one soon, then it's up to you but I would think it's reasonable to wait a short time until he's ready. If he means not for a long time and secretly hopes you go off the idea in the meantime, then yes, it is a reason to move on. <br />
You never know if you are going to fall pregnant quickly or not
it depends on alot of issues the first question you have to ask yourself do you love him or do you really want to start a family more ,if so move on if not stay
I've been with someone who had ptsd from war. That's a toughy. I have ptsd but it's not the same kind. If he's afraid of being a father rite now, I don't see what the big deal is. You don't want to rush something and lose each other. If you really love him listen to his side of the story. Ask him why he doesn't want to. After you show him that your really listening ask him to listen to what you have to say.
If you are married to him, that is going against your vows. I read this as your not being particularly selective, who the father might be, as long as you get your baby.
I apologize for my remark. Please forgive me. It sounds like you have plenty of reason to find another partner. Best of luck to you.
Yes. You can't both be happy in this situation. Of course one can come up with a million romantic reasons to stay together, but the fact remains: you are not on the same page and you won't be happy. No matter which way you decide to go, one will be on a path that makes them unhappy. Might even start hating the other for making that decision...<br />
The two of you deserve a partner who is on the same page and can satisfy your needs. Better separate now, while you can still agree on that and don't jump at each other's throats!
It depends on how you old are and him. What about marriage? Isn't that the first step? And does he want children in his future?
So you love him enough to let him father your child, but you dont love him enough to wait until he is ready to have one?
So you can only love him and stay if he impregnates you?
Ok so you can only deal with him and his problems if you have a child with him..
well you know whats right for you, and if you want a family that bad he should support you in your decision, seeing where you have supported him in his trials in life...Good luck and I hope you have a healthy beautiful baby in your future..