I want my marriage to work out...why won't he talk to me about his feelings? I feel so sad & frustrated?

He prob is involved with someone els and is not interested in what you have to say or how you feel. If you have tried to talk to him and it is not working (Change your tacktic) start ignoring him (As frustrated as you feel) - he will notice a change in you (show him YOU ON TOP OF THE WORLD - PLAY MUSIC - LAUGH OUT LOUD, BECOME OUTGOING). He will wonder WHY you so happy ...drive him MAD Dont submit to him ... "then you will see the FRUSTRATION come out in him!" You prob sitting with a DRIP that never DROPPED anyway - No more SADNESS from your side (you about to start a NEW life and get rid of excess BAGAGE) - Ask me - been there done that got the T.shirt and moved on! Lots of other good men and women out there and on EP to support you in your time of healing...Good Luck!

read a book if he isn't talking it will take your mind off of it

Why did you get married if your relationship wasn't based on talking and sharing thoughts on the first place?
It's hard to make a marriage work this way...unless he starts talking I don't know how long could you last..

Maybe you are insulting him in some way. Men aren't good at communicating what they feel anyways. Usual we don't share because it will just make the argeement that much longer, you'll probably get up set if we do, and we'd rather be doing something else.

Depends on weaher you think he still loves you or not.

have you thought of talking to him about why he does or feels the way he does, perhaps the way you ask things is in an attacking manner then he will close up and become defensive. Does he show you that he loves you in other ways? Men generally dont talk about their feelings, perhaps if you look at how he was brought up, would give reason why he keeps everything inside. Try seeing your husband in a different light and it will change your perspective.

Men feel like you are nagging when you want to hear about their feelings. Quit asking about feelings.... It pushes them away. When they are ready, they will open up on their time, not yours. Men think differently from most women. Wait until he asks, if ever, and then share together.